coccyx

well said Toriaaaa. Your life , hopes and dreams don't need to change just because you have a baby.you can still achieve them but will take change and adjustment .

nikky0907

I was always for abortion.I was selfish and spoiled,I live in a nice town,where teens don't get pregnant,I go to college,and fun was always essential in my life.
And then I got pregnant.
Everything changed,my whole outlook on life...I'm having my baby,I'm gonna finish college and I'll be a single mom...Even though my parents want nothing to do with me anymore...But I know I made the right choice for me and the baby and I've already grown very attached to it.
Your life is not ending,another one is beginning...you are young and you can do anything,you have your whole life ahead of you...

Make the right choice for you...

mumof5girls(l

Aww ella
You will know what right for you.
I know this because i was preg with my first at 17.
You can still have you'r dream hun and i bet you are going to be
the best mum and you will love your little bundle of joy.
If you want to chat i give you my msn.

Take care hun and rembmer only you know what is best hun.

leeanne

Very nice post!

worried_mum

Ok hun so having a baby will CHANGE both of your lives forever but it wont ruin your lives i know you are only young i was only 17 when i feel pregnant my partner left me ( THANK GOD) but the point is i couldn`t have aborted my pregnancy but its a sole decision

alteasdale

ella, don't do anything you don't want to do. I would never have given my baby up either. Anything is possible.

Hope you get the help and support you need

xxxx

vicky9207

im only 15 n had a baby boy 3weeks ago. my bf supported me though my pregnancy. i didnt know wat to do either i was 2 far on 4 an abortion n i dont think i could of got 1! im so glad i didnt. im so happy with my baby boy n my parents are supporting me.

you can still go 2 skool. im currenty lukin after my baby boy n studying 4 my gsces.

gud luk on whatever you desion is.

if ya ever wana talk just pm me.

kim.x

hey, this must be one of the hardest things you have to decide.

Only you can make the choice to have it or not..don't feel selfish as it is you body.

if your bf loves you he will stick by your side and go through everything with you.

i hope you can make the best decision for YOU and you only.

best of luck

Sarah88

Hun, I think you are already leaning towards keeping it. My pregnancy was not planned, and I was always proabortion before I fell pregnant, I was so very selfish back then. But now that it's happened I am starting to look into the future towards all the wonderful things I can do for and with my baby. It's the most wonderful feeling I have ever experienced knowing that i get to raise, support and mould my baby into a wonderful human. I was also attached to the bean the minute I got my BFP, so I could not really think too much about termination.
My point of view was also that we both knew the risks of unprotected sex, and it is not mym babies fault that we weren't responsible. But now thatit's happened it's time for us to take responsibility for our actions and grow up a bit. Wheather or not your partner is with you while you make your decision and if you decide to keep it, then I think you will make a wonderful mother.
Life doesn't end when you have a child, it just gets filled with more love.
Good luck on your journey towards a decision. This forum is great and we will all be with you no matter what you decide.

cheryl

Aww hun go with your heart, I was 15 when I had my first, the dad left me. But I went on to finish at school and got 5 GCSE's I have 2 children now and I am pregnant with my 3rd.
My heart said keep the baby, she is now 7 years old and I love her more than anything. I even started going to college, Personal resons I had to stop going.
Luv Cheryl xxx