OH being a ******!!!!!!

Mariaa · Nov 28th, 2009, 17:05 PM

So we were breaking up before i found out.
We moved to portugal together, lived together.
Tried to make it work after i found out he had cheated 7 times (that i know of)

PLEASE do not ask me why i tried again with him. I was sad and desperate.
We'd been together 2 1/2 years, decided it wasnt going to work so i left portugal and ccame home, he stayed an extra month.

While he was there i found out i was 7 weeks gone.
He's come home, sometimes he's supportive and great, other times he doesnt wsnt to know.
I understand he's confused, and its easy fr them to feel like nothings happening to them cos they're not carrying.
But we agreed to make this work. properly. for the baby.
Then today he says we're not in a relationship.

BASICALLY. when it suits him, we're not together, but when he gets to take my knickers off he's quite happy to play the supportive OH and Dad.

EURGHHHHHHH. why are they such wa*kers!!!!!

shelx · Nov 28th, 2009, 18:07 PM

aw chick sori 2 hear hes bein like this. Men!!! have u asked him why? best to sit down and try and talk things thru! hope your ok

x

chocaccino · Nov 28th, 2009, 18:18 PM

Aww hun,
Sounds like someone needs to man-up
xxx

etcetera · Nov 28th, 2009, 20:01 PM

Michael's wishy washy too.
Men suck >.<

xforuiholdonx · Nov 29th, 2009, 00:33 AM

Stupid fuckerr. Id cut him off sexually, lol. Thats always fun

. OH's can be so stupid, im sorry.

Jenni1991 · Nov 29th, 2009, 06:59 AM

I'd cut it off so if he wants too go anywhere he can't! You shouldn't let him treat you like this it isn't fair . Give him a choice about being with you or someone else. Tbh sounds like you can do a lot better than someone like him x

Maddiee · Nov 29th, 2009, 07:07 AM

OMG i know that feeling. My FOB only wants to be supportive when it suits him :@

Nov 28th, 2009, 17:05 PM	#1
Mariaa Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: WINDSOR, south east Posts: 427	OH being a *****!!!!!! So we were breaking up before i found out. We moved to portugal together, lived together. Tried to make it work after i found out he had cheated 7 times (that i know of) PLEASE do not ask me why i tried again with him. I was sad and desperate. We'd been together 2 1/2 years, decided it wasnt going to work so i left portugal and ccame home, he stayed an extra month. While he was there i found out i was 7 weeks gone. He's come home, sometimes he's supportive and great, other times he doesnt wsnt to know. I understand he's confused, and its easy fr them to feel like nothings happening to them cos they're not carrying. But we agreed to make this work. properly. for the baby. Then today he says we're not in a relationship. BASICALLY. when it suits him, we're not together, but when he gets to take my knickers off he's quite happy to play the supportive OH and Dad. EURGHHHHHHH. why are they such wakers!!!!!

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Nov 28th, 2009, 18:07 PM	#2
shelx Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2009 Posts: 789	aw chick sori 2 hear hes bein like this. Men!!! have u asked him why? best to sit down and try and talk things thru! hope your ok x

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Nov 28th, 2009, 18:18 PM	#3
chocaccino Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: Glastonbury Posts: 570	Aww hun, Sounds like someone needs to man-up xxx

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etcetera Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: North Carolina Posts: 414	Michael's wishy washy too. Men suck >.<

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xforuiholdonx Other Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: East Coast Posts: 1,182	Stupid fuckerr. Id cut him off sexually, lol. Thats always fun . OH's can be so stupid, im sorry.

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Jenni1991 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: Manchester Posts: 535	I'd cut it off so if he wants too go anywhere he can't! You shouldn't let him treat you like this it isn't fair . Give him a choice about being with you or someone else. Tbh sounds like you can do a lot better than someone like him x

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Maddiee Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Australia Posts: 803	OMG i know that feeling. My FOB only wants to be supportive when it suits him :@

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