need some advice and to rant

18NPregnant · Nov 23rd, 2009, 20:42 PM

there is a possibility of 2 daddies. my ex is one of them when we broke up a month ago we have remained very close. it is makin it worse to let go off him, since he is moving on and telling me who knows what will happen that he is just going to hang out with some girl and that he loves me meanwhile telling my best friend he only wants me for a friend. its so confusing and right now i am back living at my dads and he dont want me there and so i am moving to a pregnancy home whenever they get back to me i wish it was tomorrow. i just need some support i feel like i am falling apart its brutal.

and on top of it he has the nerve to tell me that he thinks its fate that they started talking. i just feel so alone and i dunno what to do. i feel like i have failed my baby

mammisarah · Nov 23rd, 2009, 20:50 PM

hey im not a teen but just 20 lol dont kind of know wich group i belong in ha.if he is saying he loves you then being with someone else he is obviously tryign to play mind games and sting you along dont let him get away with it.if i he going to treat you like this tell him where to go.nobody needs to be treat like that at anytime especially whilst pregnant.

when you move into the pregnancy home this may also help you get your head around thinhs mutch easier as you will be able to have your own space and be with other expectant mothers.and by no means have you failed your baby you are taking the right steps to starting your baby of in a good place where you wil have lots of support.sure you will be a great mammy x

18NPregnant · Nov 23rd, 2009, 20:53 PM

thank you so much i rele needed to hear that. i am sick of the mind games.
i hope to get the support i need fromthis pregnancy home which i am sure i will get and just to be away from him and not be able to have to say no since i will be in a different town and i dont drive

mammisarah · Nov 23rd, 2009, 21:02 PM

your welcome,sometimes its best to be on ur own im in a relationship but feel like i would rather be on my own at the min i know it sounds selfish but i feel if theres anything my baby needs i will be ablt to provide it!hope everything goes well also how do i get 1 of them little time line things lol x

18NPregnant · Nov 23rd, 2009, 22:33 PM

o the ticker you can google pregnancy tickers. and then you click on user CP at the top and it will say edit signature and then on the website that you personalized your ticker there will be a code for forums and you just copy that and paste it into the edit signature and then it will show up. thanks for the help i rele needed it

xforuiholdonx · Nov 23rd, 2009, 23:30 PM

Hey Hun,
Screw the ex. If he is going to play mind game nonsense and put more unneeded stress on you, then dont even worry about him. There are plenty of other fish in the sea even if it doesnt exactly seem it at the moment. Hes not worth it if hes up to no good :-/. Men are so dumb sometimes.
Anyway,
The preg home will give you all the support you need in order to raise this baby the best that you possibly can. You'll be ok. I hope everything comes around full circle for you.
Keep us posted.
Lisa.

Nov 23rd, 2009, 20:42 PM	#1
18NPregnant Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: woodstock, ontario, canada Posts: 665	need some advice and to rant there is a possibility of 2 daddies. my ex is one of them when we broke up a month ago we have remained very close. it is makin it worse to let go off him, since he is moving on and telling me who knows what will happen that he is just going to hang out with some girl and that he loves me meanwhile telling my best friend he only wants me for a friend. its so confusing and right now i am back living at my dads and he dont want me there and so i am moving to a pregnancy home whenever they get back to me i wish it was tomorrow. i just need some support i feel like i am falling apart its brutal. and on top of it he has the nerve to tell me that he thinks its fate that they started talking. i just feel so alone and i dunno what to do. i feel like i have failed my baby

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Nov 23rd, 2009, 20:50 PM	#2
mammisarah Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: cumbria Posts: 30	hey im not a teen but just 20 lol dont kind of know wich group i belong in ha.if he is saying he loves you then being with someone else he is obviously tryign to play mind games and sting you along dont let him get away with it.if i he going to treat you like this tell him where to go.nobody needs to be treat like that at anytime especially whilst pregnant. when you move into the pregnancy home this may also help you get your head around thinhs mutch easier as you will be able to have your own space and be with other expectant mothers.and by no means have you failed your baby you are taking the right steps to starting your baby of in a good place where you wil have lots of support.sure you will be a great mammy x

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Nov 23rd, 2009, 20:53 PM	#3
18NPregnant Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: woodstock, ontario, canada Posts: 665	thank you so much i rele needed to hear that. i am sick of the mind games. i hope to get the support i need fromthis pregnancy home which i am sure i will get and just to be away from him and not be able to have to say no since i will be in a different town and i dont drive

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Nov 23rd, 2009, 21:02 PM	#4
mammisarah Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: cumbria Posts: 30	your welcome,sometimes its best to be on ur own im in a relationship but feel like i would rather be on my own at the min i know it sounds selfish but i feel if theres anything my baby needs i will be ablt to provide it!hope everything goes well also how do i get 1 of them little time line things lol x

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Nov 23rd, 2009, 22:33 PM	#5
18NPregnant Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: woodstock, ontario, canada Posts: 665	o the ticker you can google pregnancy tickers. and then you click on user CP at the top and it will say edit signature and then on the website that you personalized your ticker there will be a code for forums and you just copy that and paste it into the edit signature and then it will show up. thanks for the help i rele needed it

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Nov 23rd, 2009, 23:30 PM	#6
xforuiholdonx Other Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: East Coast Posts: 1,157	Hey Hun, Screw the ex. If he is going to play mind game nonsense and put more unneeded stress on you, then dont even worry about him. There are plenty of other fish in the sea even if it doesnt exactly seem it at the moment. Hes not worth it if hes up to no good :-/. Men are so dumb sometimes. Anyway, The preg home will give you all the support you need in order to raise this baby the best that you possibly can. You'll be ok. I hope everything comes around full circle for you. Keep us posted. Lisa.

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