Should I tell my mum? :S

fantastica · Nov 23rd, 2009, 17:03 PM

I know all you guys will probably say to tell here hehe...because it's what i'd tell someone

...but still feel I need to ask anyway...please be honest if you think not to?

So...this is my 4th pregnancy in 3ish years

....seems careless...but actually hasn't been! I lost two

...and obvs have my son, but just found out i'm expecting again.

Tbh I don't know what to do about it...know not supposed to put this here..but bleh! Just don't know whether to tell my mum or not, she might be able to help...she's been great in the past but keeps saying to me 'NO MORE' haha...really think she'll completely lose it this time. Don't want to cause her anymore stress either...family is going through quite a bit atm.

Ugh...what should I do?!

walkerscrisps · Nov 23rd, 2009, 17:12 PM

Oh hun

I think you should do what you want, and if you want to keep it then I think you should. As for your mum...I'm not sure. I think if you want to keep it, and she knows that, then maybe she'll come round?
Not sure what else to suggest hun, but best of luck!

fantastica · Nov 23rd, 2009, 18:05 PM

Thanks for the reply

Think it'd be best for her to know...just kinda stressed about telling her! Argh! Oh well...guess worse things can happen! x

Char&Bump-x · Nov 23rd, 2009, 18:08 PM

She's gonna find out at some point! x

Kimboowee · Nov 23rd, 2009, 18:09 PM

Your gonna have to tell her at some point. I would just bite the bullet and do it now so its out the way and you both can get used to the idea x

Jemma_x · Nov 23rd, 2009, 18:13 PM

Id tell her now hun x

bexoth2011 · Nov 23rd, 2009, 18:14 PM

I'm so sorry you're going through all of this

If you currently live with her, I suggest you telling her. &All I can say is that I know you can do it! Youre strong enough! us girls can do anythinggg(:

walkerscrisps · Nov 23rd, 2009, 18:22 PM

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Originally Posted by fantastica

Thanks for the reply

Think it'd be best for her to know...just kinda stressed about telling her! Argh! Oh well...guess worse things can happen! x

Let us know when you tell her hun, all I can say is be happy when you tell her, maybe show her a scan or something as well?

Hope it all goes okay!

Ceexo · Nov 23rd, 2009, 18:27 PM

hahah your mom sounds like my momma! My sister was 15 years old and got pregnant and obviously she was scared and didnt understand anything at this point so she told my momma, my momma was happy. Then comes the story where I hit eighteen and I get pregnant my mom preached NO MORE, haha but when i found out, she was all down for it, sometimes ur mom is the only one who can keep you goin. I think tell her, your obviously responsable, u have a child already! So go for it i say! sorry for the typin errors, keeyboard is crap! haha

good luck!

xxoxoxo

alysedelovely · Nov 23rd, 2009, 19:15 PM

It's a lot of stress hiding it from your parents! I just told my parents today, actually. If you do tell her and ask her what to do- I think it would be best. my mom has been so supportive and I know your mom will be!

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fantastica Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: Jersey. Posts: 1,424	Should I tell my mum? :S I know all you guys will probably say to tell here hehe...because it's what i'd tell someone ...but still feel I need to ask anyway...please be honest if you think not to? So...this is my 4th pregnancy in 3ish years ....seems careless...but actually hasn't been! I lost two ...and obvs have my son, but just found out i'm expecting again. Tbh I don't know what to do about it...know not supposed to put this here..but bleh! Just don't know whether to tell my mum or not, she might be able to help...she's been great in the past but keeps saying to me 'NO MORE' haha...really think she'll completely lose it this time. Don't want to cause her anymore stress either...family is going through quite a bit atm. Ugh...what should I do?!

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walkerscrisps Mum (Mom) Inactive Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: Hampshire, but originally Queensland! Posts: 453	Oh hun I think you should do what you want, and if you want to keep it then I think you should. As for your mum...I'm not sure. I think if you want to keep it, and she knows that, then maybe she'll come round? Not sure what else to suggest hun, but best of luck!

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fantastica Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: Jersey. Posts: 1,424	Thanks for the reply Think it'd be best for her to know...just kinda stressed about telling her! Argh! Oh well...guess worse things can happen! x

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Char&Bump-x Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: La La Land Posts: 5,945	She's gonna find out at some point! x

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Jemma_x Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: Yorkshire Posts: 13,363	Id tell her now hun x

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bexoth2011 Waiting To Try (WTT) Active BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: USA Posts: 312	I'm so sorry you're going through all of this If you currently live with her, I suggest you telling her. &All I can say is that I know you can do it! Youre strong enough! us girls can do anythinggg(:

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Ceexo Waiting To Try (WTT) New BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Bridgewater, Nova Scotia Posts: 8	hahah your mom sounds like my momma! My sister was 15 years old and got pregnant and obviously she was scared and didnt understand anything at this point so she told my momma, my momma was happy. Then comes the story where I hit eighteen and I get pregnant my mom preached NO MORE, haha but when i found out, she was all down for it, sometimes ur mom is the only one who can keep you goin. I think tell her, your obviously responsable, u have a child already! So go for it i say! sorry for the typin errors, keeyboard is crap! haha good luck! xxoxoxo

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alysedelovely Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Roswell, GA, USA Posts: 488	It's a lot of stress hiding it from your parents! I just told my parents today, actually. If you do tell her and ask her what to do- I think it would be best. my mom has been so supportive and I know your mom will be!

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