fantastica

I know all you guys will probably say to tell here hehe...because it's what i'd tell someone ...but still feel I need to ask anyway...please be honest if you think not to?

So...this is my 4th pregnancy in 3ish years ....seems careless...but actually hasn't been! I lost two ...and obvs have my son, but just found out i'm expecting again.

Tbh I don't know what to do about it...know not supposed to put this here..but bleh! Just don't know whether to tell my mum or not, she might be able to help...she's been great in the past but keeps saying to me 'NO MORE' haha...really think she'll completely lose it this time. Don't want to cause her anymore stress either...family is going through quite a bit atm.

Ugh...what should I do?!

walkerscrisps

Oh hun I think you should do what you want, and if you want to keep it then I think you should. As for your mum...I'm not sure. I think if you want to keep it, and she knows that, then maybe she'll come round?
Not sure what else to suggest hun, but best of luck!

fantastica

Thanks for the reply

Think it'd be best for her to know...just kinda stressed about telling her! Argh! Oh well...guess worse things can happen! x

Char&Bump-x

She's gonna find out at some point! x

Kimboowee

Your gonna have to tell her at some point. I would just bite the bullet and do it now so its out the way and you both can get used to the idea x

Jemma_x

Id tell her now hun x

bexoth2011

I'm so sorry you're going through all of this
If you currently live with her, I suggest you telling her. &All I can say is that I know you can do it! Youre strong enough! us girls can do anythinggg(:

walkerscrisps

Let us know when you tell her hun, all I can say is be happy when you tell her, maybe show her a scan or something as well?


Hope it all goes okay!

Ceexo

hahah your mom sounds like my momma! My sister was 15 years old and got pregnant and obviously she was scared and didnt understand anything at this point so she told my momma, my momma was happy. Then comes the story where I hit eighteen and I get pregnant my mom preached NO MORE, haha but when i found out, she was all down for it, sometimes ur mom is the only one who can keep you goin. I think tell her, your obviously responsable, u have a child already! So go for it i say! sorry for the typin errors, keeyboard is crap! haha

good luck!

xxoxoxo

alysedelovely

It's a lot of stress hiding it from your parents! I just told my parents today, actually. If you do tell her and ask her what to do- I think it would be best. my mom has been so supportive and I know your mom will be!