today, I confirm to my OH that I am indeed preggers.. he preceded to be so excited, loving on me, rubbing my stomach, etc.. OH suggested that we get married at least 15 times throughout the day.. then he decides to tell the people he lives with- a couple in their mid 30's with a ten year old daughter (one they had when they were NOT married)- they seem okay at first, but then the wife is pissed off so he is scared he wont have a place to live..
OH went from being all excited and saying that he really wants this to being like "you maybe should look into abortion. I mean I just can't lose the place I'm living. It would mess up everything in my life." WTH! I am doing the right thing and he is worried about having to move somewhere else..
the biggest thing is that we both are very active members of our church. I am a sunday school teacher and he works with the youth [12-19].. the people he lives with are pissed that we won't be able to work with the kids anymore and all this junk..
I think the best solution is for us to get married within the next month.. like get engaged and then get married before christmas.. that would ease the church into the fact that I'm pregnant. He agreed with this, but then said he doesn't know because he doesn't know if he'll be living here or an hour and a half away.. whatever! it doesnt matter
I want to spend the rest of my life with him. I knew this before the baby. I just am so frustrated that he won't see my side of this.. I'm a nanny and I am super stressed out about telling the 3 families I nanny for! its scary..
ugh.
if you read this whole thing,
thank you!
any advice?
