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Nov 11th, 2009, 05:07 AM
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#1 | | Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member
Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: Colorado Springs, CO
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|  Mental Breakdown =[[[
I need to talk to SOMEONE, i don't care who posts just so long as its something that will help...
I'm 17 and 35 weeks pregnant, i've been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years, and i'm having a mental breakdown! it seems like for the past like 2 months or so my boyfriend and i just DON'T get along. we have been having such a hard time with everything! he's stressing about school, and work, and family, and me, and our son, and everything else. and i know that all i have to worry about really is school and our son, but i just feel like he isn't there for me at all anymore!! i cant' say anything to him, cuz apparently i talk about myself too much, so then i try not to talk about myself but its not like he ever really has much to say, thats how i end up talking about myself in the first place. but i'm breaking down, cuz we keep fighting and neither of us want to leave each other, i just dont' know how to handle anything right now!! i'm an emotional wreck! and these hormones make me cry ALL THE TIME, and i just need someone to talk to and vent to....  | | | | Status: Offline
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Nov 11th, 2009, 05:09 AM
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#2 | | TTC Mini-Guppy Baby!! BnB Addict
Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: Southern California (where ever my Marine is)
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| Hi Hun, I don't know you just happened to see your post. Hope your okay. PM me if you want to talk  | | | | Status: Offline
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Nov 11th, 2009, 08:42 AM
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#3 | | Pregnant - Full Term! Chat Happy BnB Member
Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: USA
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| Aww! Relax hun or that baby will pop out early!
We're always here to talk. | | | | Status: Offline
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Nov 11th, 2009, 20:26 PM
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#4 | | Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member
Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: East Midlands
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| Awwe. Just think, u guys are almost there! Pregnancy can really be a rough time for relationships...no matter how old u are. Try to just hang in there and think ahead to when your LO arrives and how special the bond u and your OH share is. Plus, like u said, the whole hormone thing can cause emotions to take over. Have u mentioned the crying to your midwife or doctor? I hope it's not the case for u but it's not uncommon for women to get the baby blues even before the baby arrives...? | | | | Status: Offline
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Nov 11th, 2009, 21:52 PM
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#5 | | Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member
Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: London
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| hey, don't worry too much, i was going through the same, and i'm only 5 weeks 
pregnancy is stressful, and maybe you feel a bit lonley now, as he isn't cooking the bun in the oven, and he can still go out and do watever...
have you talked to him about how you feel, and if he starts going on about you talking about you, tell him your trying to sort everything out...
men are soo complicated
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Nov 11th, 2009, 22:12 PM
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#6 | | Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member
Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: lincoln
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| maybe now it's not to long he's thinking crap i'm having a baby i know that might sound strange but maybe the realisation has hit him, i know me and oh are the same but when i talk about the baby he gets a smile but i can see hes really scared so hopefully when ur little boy comes it will pick up  | | | | Status: Offline
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Nov 11th, 2009, 22:14 PM
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#7 | | Pregnant with 1st :) Chat Happy BnB Member
Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: Lincoln/Tattershall
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| Awwww hun try to relax
im basically at the same stage of pregnancy as u and me and my OH went through a stage like this last month, last week i sat him down, told him to shut up and LISTEN ... and i poured my little bloody heart out to him.
I think he just seemed to forget how vulnerable and emotional i was, and i needed to talk to him about my pregnancy, and how i hated him going out bla bla, and things are sooo much better now, PM if u need to talk hun xx | | | | Status: Offline
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Nov 11th, 2009, 23:58 PM
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#8 | | Pregnant (Expecting) Inactive
Join Date: Oct 2009
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| If you still need someone to talk to feel free to PM me I had problems with my FOB also! | | | | Status: Offline
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