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Nov 10th, 2009, 08:16 AM
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#1 | | Other New BnB Member
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| From mean to insane person
As I said before, the father of my baby is a really mean person as he calls me all sorts of names and throws pasta sauce over me, but he has actually taken it into the realms of insane. He moved to a new accomodation which is just opposite one of my friends flat, so she hears about him from her friends in his flat. She found out yesterday that he had put bleach into my sauces. I thought, 'no, no one is that crazy' so I went home and smelt and tasted a little and lo and behold he had done just that. Obviously I panicked and freaked out because I was going to eat that tonight and no doubt I would of just carried on eating it!! Ive now got the police involved because well that is insane! I keep going over did he plan on trying to a) kill me b) cause a miscarriage c) think it wouldve been funny.
What bothers me even more is that he was bragging about doing it, and god Im scared what he may do! He was arrested and then released on bail, but Im going home (back down south WAY away!) for a week until things calm down a little. This truly is madness! He tried to hurt my LO!  | | | | Status: Offline
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Nov 10th, 2009, 08:52 AM
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#2 | | Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member
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| That is so scary I'd be stayin well away from him and not eating or drinking anything he gives me. I read a story the other day about a doctor who was feeding abortion medication to his mistress trying to kill their baby! U have to be careful! Good luck babe | | | | Status: Offline
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Nov 10th, 2009, 09:41 AM
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#3 | | Baby #1 due March 2010 BnB Addict
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| mg how old is he? 5? no even a 5 year old wouldn't do anything like that that's insulting 5 year olds! i would just stay away completely he sounds disgusting hun u dont want anyone like that in your life!!! xx | | | | Status: Offline
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Nov 10th, 2009, 10:45 AM
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#4 | | Other New BnB Member
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| I try really hard, as obv he is not quite all there, but he keeps finding ways. Though he will not hurt me or my LO ever, and will not have anything to do with either of us; safety first! | | | | Status: Offline
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Nov 10th, 2009, 11:40 AM
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#5 | | Mum of 2. Active BnB Member
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| You need to get an injuction against him hun. Make sure as soon as he is spotted near you that the police are informed. You cant live like this it is notfair on any of you. Stay well away and stick to your guns x | | | | Status: Offline
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Nov 10th, 2009, 13:11 PM
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#6 | | 35+2 with a little boy :) Chat Happy BnB Member
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| my ex emptied out a juice carton and filled it with water and washing up liquid and watched me drink it cos he thought it was funny 0_o (while we were still together, and knowing i was pregnant)
boys are fucking idiots
stay away!xx | | | | Status: Offline
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Nov 10th, 2009, 20:43 PM
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#7 | | Mummy to Princess Sienna Active BnB Member
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| stay away from him he sounds like a right nut job | | | | Status: Online
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Nov 11th, 2009, 04:47 AM
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#8 | | Carmen's mommy Active BnB Member
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Originally Posted by Cakeikins  Though he will not hurt me or my LO ever, and will not have anything to do with either of us | I wouldn't count on that, as he's already done something that could have killed the both of you. You need to get a restraining order, or whatever it's called over there, and fast. Keep him the hell away from you, and your LO! | | | | Status: Offline
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Nov 11th, 2009, 18:49 PM
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#9 | | Other New BnB Member
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| Thank you everyone! I cant believe anyone could do anything quite so evil. Im sorting out a restraining order until the police can get the evidence to charge him for attempted murder/forced abortion. People can be really horrible to each other and I never imagined I would find anyone quite so evil! Im more worried about my baby, I pray genetics would never make it ever like him! I dont think I could cope! | | | | Status: Offline
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Nov 11th, 2009, 19:01 PM
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#10 | | Pregnant - Full Term! Chat Happy BnB Member
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Originally Posted by Cakeikins Thank you everyone! I cant believe anyone could do anything quite so evil. Im sorting out a restraining order until the police can get the evidence to charge him for attempted murder/forced abortion. People can be really horrible to each other and I never imagined I would find anyone quite so evil! Im more worried about my baby, I pray genetics would never make it ever like him! I dont think I could cope! | Glad you did something about it. He sounds psychotic.
Hopefully since your child wont grow up around him he won't be influenced into such crazy stuff! 
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