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Old Nov 9th, 2009, 05:22 AM   #1
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something that just really ticks me off .


my friend told me a couple months ago she was pregnant , she would of only been about barely 20 weeks now .. she had no baby's daddy in the picture , but she was proud to be pregnant .
and she posted all these pictures of her belly on facebook , and wrote how much she loved her baby , and how her baby meant the world to her ..

then last week , she had her facebook status as "gunna go get my monroe pierced tomorrow , tattoo next week .."
and i commented on it and said that you're not supposed to do either of those while you're pregnant ..
and she sent me a message after saying that she got an abortion ..
it just really really makes me mad that she would post all these pictures and brag abbout how happy she is to be a teen mom and how proud she is and how much she loves her baby then go and get it torn apart .. i asked her why she wouldn't give it up to someone who can't have children and have been waiting 10+ years to get one , and she said she's to selfish , that she wouldn't be able to carry it around for 9 months then just hand it off .. which i can see why she would think that .. buut i'd rather give up my baby to someone else than kill it ( i loove my baby , and i'm deffinatly keeping it for myself =] )
but . like , is it wrong of me to think that what she's done is wrong ? like , we're not talking atm cause i got really mad at her over this .
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Old Nov 9th, 2009, 05:32 AM   #2
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I have no others words, except...WTF?!!!
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Old Nov 9th, 2009, 05:36 AM   #3
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I have no others words, except...WTF?!!!
doesn't that just tick you off ?
i could never imagine pretending to love a baby then kill it =[
it makes me wanna cry ..
she used to talk about how our kids would play and be good friends ..
now . i just don't like her one bit ..
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Old Nov 9th, 2009, 05:39 AM   #4
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That is so sad
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Old Nov 9th, 2009, 07:11 AM   #5
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Isn't it illegal to have an abortion at 20 weeks?
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Old Nov 9th, 2009, 07:25 AM   #6
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well she would have been 20 weeks now , apparently she got it done a couple weeks ago .
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Old Nov 9th, 2009, 07:31 AM   #7
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That's definitely screwed up!
Not to mention if you ever had an abortion why would you want everyone knowing? That's just one of those dark secrets that should stay dark. Not post abunch of pictures of your belly then walk into a clinic making everyone go "Uhh..."

I don't blame you for not talking to her. I would be furious at her.
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Old Nov 9th, 2009, 08:20 AM   #8
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omg! i hope she took all her pictures down!
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Old Nov 9th, 2009, 09:32 AM   #9
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i was just about to say the same as miissmuffet! hope shes taken the piccys down!

what a silly thing to do..
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Old Nov 9th, 2009, 12:30 PM   #10
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Isn't it illegal to have an abortion at 20 weeks?
nope im sure certain places do it up to 24w

i cant believe that girl! i dont even know what to say!

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