i dont want to go into full on rant mode, as somebodys already said.. If you actually think about it, why the hell do you want to be a teen mum? Im 15, i have a nearly 2 month old daughter & yes im pregnant again. You really think i wanted all of this on purpose at 15 years old? I totally love my daughter & my "bump" but just think about it before u actually post on a teen pregnancy forum- i dont want you to take it as im being a typical bitch, but do u seriously kno how hard it is? I still go to school & that is a job in itself, waking up through the night. Getting up with a baby that cries through the whole night? No its not just a lie to "scare" people, it happens. So actually think & use your head before u actually go ahead with this

i just want u to relise wot ur missing out on hun, yeh a baby is grt !!! but not when uv not lived ur life(pls dont take this the wrong way,pls take it as advice and care) listern to the other teens(im not one) they know exactley how hard it is

i didnt mean my above post to be horrible btw, i just read it and it sounded harsh xx

dont worry mum2 Kaileigh, i don't think what you said was harsh, just truthful x

ah. well if id of seen this id of comented on it a LOT earlier (but i COULDNT cos i was too busy looking after my son, who by the way, doesnt seem so cute when hes being sick at 3am)..
i really dont want to sound harsh. i dont mean to. all im saying is the truth. as i saw someone say earlier on, not all pregnancys have a "happy ending" if you like. 2 years ago, i got pregnant for the first time, and EVERYTHING was going fine. honestly. everything. and then i went into labour at 25 weeks and had to give birth to my dead baby. now i KNOW you wont understand how hard it is and i KNOW it doesnt happen to everyone. but it DOES happen. i was younger than you then, but i dont think age has much to do with it if im honest. it can happen to anyone, i know. but it is a lot harder to deal with, the younger you are - obviously..
i turned sixteen in july, and NOW i have a nine month old son who of course i love more than anything. but i had never felt.. so absolutley heartshatteringly close to dying when he was born at 28 weeks and i was told to be "prepared" to see him die. prepared? i personally think thats a stupid thing to say.. now im going on a bit but if you want to bother reading this then you can. my whole world revolves around him, i have to think of him before i do anything. literally. i know it may look nice and pretty and you probably dont mind the prospect of changing nappies and cleaning up sick. but i think whoever it was that brought up the idea that not all babys are healthy is the most truthful. nobody thinks of that. but you have to when its your own child. and now im pregnant again (no, it wasnt planned) and i wouldnt (and couldnt) change it for the world, and i dont know how anyone could. im already in majorrrr pain, but id go through 50 times worse for any child of mine. although id rather not go through it atall.
and now to make things better their "father" wants nothing to do with just ONE of his children, and expects me to be fine with it. and you know what. no. i dont have time for that. i love him but i have to love my kids more.
and i must seem like a real crap mother right now. i have gone on for ages, and im sorry. but please do, take the time to add me if you need someone to talk to. ill try fit you in
im honestly not TRYING to sound horrible, although i know i probably do.
i only said alot because i will do anything to stop someone making the same mistakes i have. (that sounded bad too)
lots of lovee, Kerry - xo

go kerry! well said babe x

well said kerry babe x

Well said Kerry!

maybe if you said this in the first post, people wouldnt have jumped to conclusions. x

Girl u r CRAZY!!!!!!! I was 19 while pregnant and it wasn't even planned! At 15 your still breaking the law by having sex and that laws not there just for fun. Having a baby is by far the hardest thing I've ever dedicated my time too! The pressure on your mental/ physical and emotional state is life changing. At 15 I was just getting into the stride of having fun. NOT wishing my life away with a child!