15 and I want a baby! - Page 2

jenny_wren · Nov 8th, 2009, 14:56 PM

we're a wise lot in here listen to us!

you've got to think about the baby as well
as what you want!

finish school, get a job, build yourself a life
then think about bringing a child into the world
when you can give it everything it deserves

dont just have a child because you want one
go out and enjoy the world be a teenager
have fun like woowoo said you wont get
those years back and you dont want to
regret having your child

being a teen mum is HARD
you'll feel more alone than ever

just think long and hard before trying
to concieve please

xx

honey08 · Nov 8th, 2009, 14:57 PM

money IS nothing to a baby hun its love.time,devotion etc ( and not throwing ur teen yrs away!) thats wot im saying !

blackrose · Nov 8th, 2009, 14:58 PM

This will sound rude .. and i'm sorry . But , go to school , go to college , get a good job a nice partner and continue growing up as you have a long way to go at fifteen . No offence to anyone who already has a baby at all . But you certainly should consider how hard it is. I have a sister older than you and I consider her to be a kid . Who has a lot of things to learn and experience

Aidan's Mummy · Nov 8th, 2009, 14:58 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by honey08

money IS nothing to a baby hun its love.time,devotion etc ( and not throwing ur teen yrs away!) thats wot im saying !

Exactly
xx

x-dannielle · Nov 8th, 2009, 14:59 PM

15 is too young i think, you have so much to live for and to do and explore....i fell pregnant at 15 and it is bloody hard work and have missed out on ALOT, i love my daughter to bits and wouldnt change her for the world.

best thing to do is finish school get a job then look in to it once youve lived a little?

honey08 · Nov 8th, 2009, 15:03 PM

she doesnt need a job ! as shes already said (twice) her family are well off !!!

listern to the teens that are there now and living the reality hun, live ur life first !

jenny_wren · Nov 8th, 2009, 15:05 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by honey08

she doesnt need a job ! as shes already said (twice) her family are well off !!!

maybe im too independant
but i wouldn't want my family to pay
for MY baby i'd rather earn my own
money for nappies and what not

x

sarah0108 · Nov 8th, 2009, 15:06 PM

to stop myself going into crazy rant mode about having babies young id take a look at this link..

Just wanna give you Really young mums some advice :)

i made this thread a while back about people wanting kids so young.

i got pregnant at 15, im 16 now and pregnant AGAIN! i have a 5 month old, neither were planned but whatever they are here now and its my job to bring them up, it is the most single hardest thing i have ever done!

id think about it long and hard..please, its not all fun and games seriously, just read that thread x

agreeksmom · Nov 8th, 2009, 15:07 PM

im 23 years old im excited to be prego and freaking scared! i dont know where u are located but in canada its not easy raising a child seriously if u have a friend who has a young baby ask her to stay with her see what she goes through its not fun! specially at such a young age.

when i was 14 i wanted a baby all my friends had one. i am so proud that i waited till i could afford to have one. im married and we are finally ready please rethink what u want

sarah0108 · Nov 8th, 2009, 15:07 PM

by the way this thread will most probably get locked by the mods soon x

Nov 8th, 2009, 14:56 PM	#11
jenny_wren Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: farnborough, hampshire Posts: 16,977	we're a wise lot in here listen to us! you've got to think about the baby as well as what you want! finish school, get a job, build yourself a life then think about bringing a child into the world when you can give it everything it deserves dont just have a child because you want one go out and enjoy the world be a teenager have fun like woowoo said you wont get those years back and you dont want to regret having your child being a teen mum is HARD you'll feel more alone than ever just think long and hard before trying to concieve please xx

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honey08 Pregnant (Expecting) BnB Spammer Elite Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: north yorkshire,uk Posts: 28,665	money IS nothing to a baby hun its love.time,devotion etc ( and not throwing ur teen yrs away!) thats wot im saying !

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blackrose Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: Ireland Posts: 2,192	This will sound rude .. and i'm sorry . But , go to school , go to college , get a good job a nice partner and continue growing up as you have a long way to go at fifteen . No offence to anyone who already has a baby at all . But you certainly should consider how hard it is. I have a sister older than you and I consider her to be a kid . Who has a lot of things to learn and experience

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x-dannielle Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: letchworth/hertfordshire Posts: 866	15 is too young i think, you have so much to live for and to do and explore....i fell pregnant at 15 and it is bloody hard work and have missed out on ALOT, i love my daughter to bits and wouldnt change her for the world. best thing to do is finish school get a job then look in to it once youve lived a little?

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honey08 Pregnant (Expecting) BnB Spammer Elite Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: north yorkshire,uk Posts: 28,665	she doesnt need a job ! as shes already said (twice) her family are well off !!! listern to the teens that are there now and living the reality hun, live ur life first !

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Nov 8th, 2009, 15:06 PM	#18
sarah0108 Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: May 2009 Location: Amongst the chaos Posts: 14,876	to stop myself going into crazy rant mode about having babies young id take a look at this link.. Just wanna give you Really young mums some advice :) i made this thread a while back about people wanting kids so young. i got pregnant at 15, im 16 now and pregnant AGAIN! i have a 5 month old, neither were planned but whatever they are here now and its my job to bring them up, it is the most single hardest thing i have ever done! id think about it long and hard..please, its not all fun and games seriously, just read that thread x

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Nov 8th, 2009, 15:07 PM	#19
agreeksmom Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: canada Posts: 1,186	im 23 years old im excited to be prego and freaking scared! i dont know where u are located but in canada its not easy raising a child seriously if u have a friend who has a young baby ask her to stay with her see what she goes through its not fun! specially at such a young age. when i was 14 i wanted a baby all my friends had one. i am so proud that i waited till i could afford to have one. im married and we are finally ready please rethink what u want

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