dont know what to do :( help?

KerryanneJ09 · Nov 7th, 2009, 18:01 PM

so, as most of you already know, im pregnant.
(yes, again)..

and basically the OH is acting like such a 2 year old himself. it is UNREAL.
he's made it pretty obvious he doesnt want the baby. and i dont know how he doesnt see that this baby (or "it" as he likes to call it) is just like Hayden was

im starting to wonder whether i should even bother anymore

i dont know why hes being like this..
im really sorry for being so moany and annoying but im so confused.
and i just wanted to say thanks to everyone whos helped me, ESPECIALLY Carley & Sarah, i honestly dont know what id do without you.
and sorry again. i really am.

xo

Dinoslass · Nov 7th, 2009, 18:13 PM

Hey, you are not annoying, don't be silly. You have every right to be, seeing your OH is being the one who's annoying. I do not really have any advice about how to deal with the situation. All though I would like to say that if he doesn't want the baby and is so unsupportive perhaps he is not the right one for you to bring children up with.
Congratulations on being pregnant anyways. And may I add your LO looks soooo cute!!

luxe191919 · Nov 7th, 2009, 18:24 PM

Im sorry that he is doing that try maybe sitting him down and talkin to him about it and tell him you dont like the way he is acting tell him that it hurts your feelings and tell him how its making you feel

Mum2 Kaileigh · Nov 7th, 2009, 19:30 PM

aww hunnie

! im always here for you & dont forget it, you know were both gonna be little snakes by the end of our pregnancys, but hey! its all good fun

lovee you & haydennnnn & bumparoo <3 xx

minimoo90 · Nov 7th, 2009, 19:52 PM

heyy...
don't let him put you in a bad mood, have you tried talking to him??

it pee's me off how men, then they have the right to decide

congrats....

xx

KerryanneJ09 · Nov 7th, 2009, 20:09 PM

thankyou you guyss. (: i honestly appreciate it alot, knowing that theres always someone there.
+ haha Carley. do i LOOK chinese? xD
thanks again. you can all make me smile anyday

xo

Momof2kiddos · Nov 8th, 2009, 01:38 AM

honestly id sit him down and say get it together or get out. you have enough on your plate raising two LO's without having to raise him too. tell him if he doesnt want to step up and be a father to BOTH of his children then he needs to leave, its not fair to you, its not fair to the kids.

Mum2 Kaileigh · Nov 8th, 2009, 04:42 AM

yes kerry, yes you do.

Beccax3 · Nov 8th, 2009, 04:46 AM

My boyfriend does the same thing. The only reason we are together at the moment is for the baby, I love him to death, but he has no feelings for me. It's pathetic, and really hurts me

sarah0108 · Nov 8th, 2009, 05:36 AM

hugs babe!!

you know i was in the EXACT situation as you hunny, but now he left me

(as you know lol!) its hard but now im thinking its easier, im starting to get over it slowly and sometimes i think its easier now i only have me and Harriet to worry about.

sorry im rubish at advice haha!

but you have my number if you EVERRRRR need me

loves to you all! x

Nov 7th, 2009, 18:01 PM	#1
KerryanneJ09 Mum (Mom) Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: Croydon/London Posts: 109	dont know what to do :( help? so, as most of you already know, im pregnant. (yes, again).. and basically the OH is acting like such a 2 year old himself. it is UNREAL. he's made it pretty obvious he doesnt want the baby. and i dont know how he doesnt see that this baby (or "it" as he likes to call it) is just like Hayden was im starting to wonder whether i should even bother anymore i dont know why hes being like this.. im really sorry for being so moany and annoying but im so confused. and i just wanted to say thanks to everyone whos helped me, ESPECIALLY Carley & Sarah, i honestly dont know what id do without you. and sorry again. i really am. xo

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Nov 7th, 2009, 18:13 PM	#2
Dinoslass Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Aug 2009 Posts: 789	Hey, you are not annoying, don't be silly. You have every right to be, seeing your OH is being the one who's annoying. I do not really have any advice about how to deal with the situation. All though I would like to say that if he doesn't want the baby and is so unsupportive perhaps he is not the right one for you to bring children up with. Congratulations on being pregnant anyways. And may I add your LO looks soooo cute!!

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Nov 7th, 2009, 18:24 PM	#3
luxe191919 Pregnant (Expecting) Inactive Join Date: Oct 2009 Posts: 228	Im sorry that he is doing that try maybe sitting him down and talkin to him about it and tell him you dont like the way he is acting tell him that it hurts your feelings and tell him how its making you feel

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Nov 7th, 2009, 19:30 PM	#4
Mum2 Kaileigh Mum (Mom) Inactive Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: England Posts: 165	aww hunnie ! im always here for you & dont forget it, you know were both gonna be little snakes by the end of our pregnancys, but hey! its all good fun lovee you & haydennnnn & bumparoo <3 xx

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Nov 7th, 2009, 19:52 PM	#5
minimoo90 Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: Essex Posts: 978	heyy... don't let him put you in a bad mood, have you tried talking to him?? it pee's me off how men, then they have the right to decide congrats.... xx

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Nov 7th, 2009, 20:09 PM	#6
KerryanneJ09 Mum (Mom) Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: Croydon/London Posts: 109	thankyou you guyss. (: i honestly appreciate it alot, knowing that theres always someone there. + haha Carley. do i LOOK chinese? xD thanks again. you can all make me smile anyday xo

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Nov 8th, 2009, 01:38 AM	#7
Momof2kiddos Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: Georgia Posts: 292	honestly id sit him down and say get it together or get out. you have enough on your plate raising two LO's without having to raise him too. tell him if he doesnt want to step up and be a father to BOTH of his children then he needs to leave, its not fair to you, its not fair to the kids.

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Nov 8th, 2009, 04:42 AM	#8
Mum2 Kaileigh Mum (Mom) Inactive Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: England Posts: 165	yes kerry, yes you do.

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Nov 8th, 2009, 04:46 AM	#9
Beccax3 Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Brisbane, Australia. Posts: 129	My boyfriend does the same thing. The only reason we are together at the moment is for the baby, I love him to death, but he has no feelings for me. It's pathetic, and really hurts me

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Nov 8th, 2009, 05:36 AM	#10
sarah0108 Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: May 2009 Location: Amongst the chaos Posts: 14,876	hugs babe!! you know i was in the EXACT situation as you hunny, but now he left me (as you know lol!) its hard but now im thinking its easier, im starting to get over it slowly and sometimes i think its easier now i only have me and Harriet to worry about. sorry im rubish at advice haha! but you have my number if you EVERRRRR need me loves to you all! x

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