nikky0907

Hi,I'm sorry if this is a stupid question but I'm kinda new at this and I registered so I can ask some of you who had gone through similar situations for advice.
I'm 18 and I just started college.I've been active since I was 16 and that is when I got on the pill.I never had any pregnancy scares or anything like that.Recently I broke up with my boyfriend and had a one night stand with the guy I know from campus.That was 2 weeks ago and now I'm sick most of the time,tired and my breast are sore.I even had some bleedeing even though I'm still on the pill but it lasted like 2 days.Now I'm very worried.My friend pointed to me the fact that I might be pregnant.
How is it possible that I was on the pill,I never had any problems with any of my boyfriends despite having sex with them several times and now one time with this guy and I may be pregnant?
I'm completly shocked,scared and I have no idea what to do,I'm so scared to take the test...

Rumpskin

For peace of mind, I would get tested. Take a good friend with you for support.

Sending you a hug xx

leeanne

I agree....take a test.

nikky0907

I know I shoul but I'm very scared of the result...can you please recommend a good pregnancy test...

Please don't thinl less of me because I had a one night stand,I never do that usually...

Rumpskin

We dont think less of you lovely. Dont beat yourself up over it.

How late are you?

nikky0907

Well,I'm on the pill,so I take them for 22 days and then for 6 days I have my period,but I didn't get it this month...

Rumpskin

I would go to the doctors myself to get it confirmed one way or another. It is not what you want to hear but believe me, they see people in your situation so often.

They will be able to discuss all your options without any pressure.

Remember, it is your body and only you can make a decision as to what you will do if you are pregnant.

Lots of love xxx

nikky0907

I guess avoiding won't do anyone any good,there are like a million questions going through my mind...I'm just completly terrified.I'm not sure what I'm gonna do if I'm pregnant...thank you for being so nice...

Rumpskin

Why dont you write your questions down? That may help you a little.

Have you spoken to anyone else about it?

Talking to someone may help you a bit.

We are all here for you if you want to chat more xx

nikky0907

My friend knows about it,she will go to the doctor with me when I make the appointment but she only tells me to have an abortion and I really need to talk to people who are experiencing the same things...
What do you mean I should write my questions down?