I wasnt when i found out and split up with the dad this week and its hard already with the hormones without having to be on my own, anyone going through similar things?
Lotsa people go through this on there own, and I dont know how difficult it will be (I'm still with my partner) but just keep remembering your doing it for you and baby and it will make you so much stronger!
Yh im trying to look at the bright side that im guna have a beautiful baby and at least the fathers going to stick around for me and the baby, just dont want to see him at the mo.
do you mind me asking if yous split up because the pregnancy? or was it other reasons? It might take some time before you can be around him as friends comfortably.
Hiya just to let you kno that i am in the same position as you, i wasnt single when i found out i was pregnant but i am now, however the babies dad is still going to be very involved in her life and we still meet regularly. But it is hard not having anyone thats there for you to comfort and love you i suppose.
I have all faith that we will cope just fine thought
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erm it was partly because of the preg, he is from Dubai and he has been a student here for 2 and a half years and we bin 2gether for that wen i found out his reaction was happy and posotive, but the next day he went home and i didnt here from him for 3 weeks and then he phoned me and said hes waiting for me 2 have an abortion i said why he said i dont want my baby 2 be on the other side of the world(which i can totally understand) then he was ok but my mum had a few words to say 2 him bout leaving me on my own through this and after that he said he had no feelings for me at all, in a way i feel angry with myself for telling my mum, but i needed someone to tell it really hurt me.
I hope i can become friends with him, i love him dearly but maybe its just time he needs im just trying not to get my hopes up.
Telling your mum was the right thing to do I think. You need someone to talk to and im guessing its her natural instinct to be angry at him for up and leaving to dubai. And then to turn and say he has no feelings for you would get her angry too. I hope in time he can come around to being a dad and come back and help support yous x
Oh hunny, . He wants you to have an abortion because he doesn't want to be on the other side of the world from his child? What a horrible excuse!! I'm sure he sugarcoated that one a bit how unreal. Maybe he will come around the bend, but it is obvious he is not ready for a child at this time. That is so great you have your mum for support, it's what you need! Stay strong and take care of yourself wishing you a happy and healthy pregnancy.
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and it will make you so much stronger!
. He wants you to have an abortion because he doesn't want to be on the other side of the world from his child? What a horrible excuse!! I'm sure he sugarcoated that one a bit 
how unreal. Maybe he will come around the bend, but it is obvious he is not ready for a child at this time. That is so great you have your mum for support, it's what you need! Stay strong and take care of yourself 
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