I'm in the same boat babe. My baby's dad was over the moon when we found out about the pregnancy, then a few days after my 12 week scan he split up with me and went to Corfu for 3 months.
Hes been back since late October and I've only spoken to him a few times on the phone, he deliberatley goes out of his way to upset me whenever he does speak to me. Hes not been there for me at all and has already proven how much me and the baby mean to him - and hes not a kid either hes 24, he should have grown up a bit by now surely.
Hes a nasty piece of work anyway and I'm not even just saying that being the spiteful ex, but I don't know what to do for the best.
It sounds like you've got the support of your mum, I'm due in 3 weeks and I couldn't have gotten this far if it wasn't for the support of my mum, shes been a diamond. At the end of the day all that matters is the health and happiness of you and your little one. I know your hurting right now, but try to keep your chin up doll, everything will be okay.
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hey, im going to be a young mum to, though im not alone i some times feel like i am because of the hormones, some men just dnt get it lol. but just think ur the one that is coping with being pregnant and bringing a precious baby into the world thats something to be proud and respected of. gl im always around to chat x.x
thankyou, yh my mums being great just wish i had him for some emotional support, i hope i can get over this its just hard at the mo, with all these new hormones and feelings but im sure i will get there.
you know what? you're going to have your baby and if he isn't reponsible enough to be around then he is missing out. You can do it, so many moms are young moms. It is hard work, but I hear it's totally worth it! good luck.
Im 12 weeks pregnant n single. I find it really hard. I love my babys dad so much but he is being a total ass! Im going through the angry phase right now!!
Hey I'm kinda in the after stage of the situation you're in. I wasn't with Ryan's dad for most of the pregnancy, and we're not together now. Just letting you know that it is possible and that you do get through it. It's definately hard work, but very rewarding. I'm glad that your baby's dad has still decided to stick around and help - it makes things that little bit easier. xx
I split up with the father ages ago. It's hard, but not impossible. In all honesty I think sometimes it's easier without the father, there pissing you off all the time and whatnot lol.
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