K well im pregnant with my boyfriend and yes im happy but scared! I found out a week before my 17th bday. Im a senior n finishing school early. My boyfriend is 19 and out of high school and finally got his ass a job. Well the thing is that i havent told my parents. Im so scared i dont know what to do. i talk to my mom and she heard for her work that my boyfriend had a baby and yes this is true he has a baby boy which he cant see cause his baby mama is jelous of us and she's mad about there brake up, see she got pregnant at 15 and she of course is hurt n of course i understand but the thing is that she shouldnt keep him from seeing his son, its his but she just doesnt want him in his sons life. well anyways my mom found out n i said its true n she keeps telling me dont make the same mistake, well i dont consider it a mistake because im happy i know what ima do out of high school ima start my career in pharmacy tech. im excited but scared because i dont know how to tell my parents or know wat they will say to me. And another thing is i live with my grandparents but see n talk to my mom all the time so i have to tell my granparents who are like my parents and my mom/step dad too!!

well .. how do you think your grandparents will take it? and your mom and step dad?
i think you should sit down with them in person .. weather it be all together .. or seperate.
and come out .. tell them that your going to keep the baby and be completely honest and up front about your feelings.
tell them sooner then later .. its harder the longer you wait.


hope everything works out for you hun!

yeah the sooner you tell them the more they will appriciate it, rather than waiting i told my mum the next day and even that wasnt soon enough for her lol
x

Is there a close family friend you can confide in? Like... someone you can go to with your parents too tell them? Thats what i done, and it was alot easier than trying to tell them myself. And you'll find parents think alot diffrently when its there child

I'm 16, told my parents a week ago... I had 2 youth workers with me to help me out... But trust me the sooner the better. I'm 2 months gone today xx

The sooner you tell them the better chick, they will probably be angry/upset and may say some things they dont mean when you tell them at first. But they honestly will calm down, once they get used to the idea. But dont fall out with your family, you will need their support when the baby is born. And your parents do have a right to be concerned about your boyfriend, and that will probably affect how they react about it. But like i said they will calm down eventually it will just take them time. And honestly listen to their advice, they've done it and it will help you in the long run x Good luck

Bite the bullet Waiting only makes you worry more and stress more, which isn't good for you or baby. It also makes it harder to tell them because you think about their reaction more. Trust me, I told my parents 3 days after finding out I was 2 months pregnant with my daughter (first child) at 17, and then i waited more 3 weeks to tell my parents about my second pregnancy, at 18. It was ALOT harder the second time around because I waited so long.

Good luck!

xoxox

tell them as soon as possible hun!
I waited 2 days to tell mine and i wished i would have told them sooner
they might be dissapointed at first but they will get over it, mine did

I agree you should tell your parents soon i got pregnant with my first at 17 and when i think back now i wish i had of told my mum straight away she ended finding out when i had morning sickness she did say some hurtful things which i know she didnt mean, she came around when i was around 3 months pregnant i suppose i didnt want to tell her at the time because i thought she expected more from me and the fact that my partner was older she kinda blamed him aswell it was scary but its better you tell them,than them finding out on their own

This an old past from 2009...