but then again we are only young but i think i really do want this!
another thing which doesn't help is the fact that my mum is fine with me wanting or keeping the baby if i was pregnant, because she is giving me approval i want to do it more. does that make sense?
I understrand what you are saying, but just have a good think and a good chat with your OH and see how you both feel, you may decide it is wise to wait a while and enjoy each other first, or that it is what you both want and start TTC very soon!
i mean we have been together a year and living together for 11 months so we know about intensity!
but his chances are slim of concieving and he thinks that if i get pregnant then it may be his only chance but that's not the reason i want to start TTC.
i think i may just see how things run and if it happens we shall see how we feel.
i would love it though! i just want to share something with him!