Hiya, im not sure if i am posting this in the right part but anyways more to the point.....
Today my bfs sister was doing a sky dive (if thats how you spell it lol) with her mates but unfortunately the weather wasent that good so she couldent do it (lets cut to the chase). I rang my bf up and he was at his mates house (fair enuff) rang him a bit later saying when are you coming back and he said hes back now i was like okie then i will see you in a bit. Got back to his he was tidying the room and i helpt him when i got in then i goes can we watch a dvd after and he goes yeh. 20 mins later he had a phone call off (the same mate he was with earlier) saying are you coming out he start whispering on the fone and then come off it. I was sitting in the room crying because he never spends time with me anymore. He dident even say anything about me crying and then he went out to his mates. Even though he promised to spend the night in with me.
About 5 days ago he did the same thing went out at 9pm left me and dident come back till 7am i couldnt get to sleep with out him. I Know it sounds stupid but im so used to cuddling up with him at night and him being away that night i just turned the light on and sat up all night.
He quit his job and now hes quit he has been looking (tbf) but its like im not good enough for him. Like he would rather spend it with his mates and come and come back when im so tired and asleep.
I really dont think we are going to last i cant take it nemore i go out when he was at work normaly so i would come back and spend the night with him or if i went out ask him if he wants to come with. He just f**** off out dont say bye or fuck all and its upsetting me constantly. I love him to peices and im scared of being by myself with the baby. I have also felt not confident (not sure what word i want to use) i feel fat even tho i still fit into my size 10 and 8. Im scared of geting stretch marks i know most people are bound 2 get them it scares me cause i think he will look at other people because they are skinnier or havent got stretch marks and stuff.
You need to tell him your afraid. He sounds a bit scared himself. Talk it through and don't make any desicions when your super emotional or suffering from lack of sleep (easier said than done know) But that was the best piece of advice my dad ever gave me.
Hon you have to take some time to yourself, your bf is being a bit unfair leaving you constantly and you need to tell him this, please don't put up with it for the sake of the baby, you have to think of yourself aswell
Sweetie, talk to your bf, tell him that you want him to spend time with you. Explain how much you love him but if he walks away then he isn't good for you.
Thanks everyone xxxx i always say you dont spend enough time with me nemore you always f*** off to your mates and he still does it.
Maybe try in a less accusing and hostile way? Put accross positively of, "I miss you and I'd really love to spend some time with you" take him out to the cinema or something??
Maybe try in a less accusing and hostile way? Put accross positively of, "I miss you and I'd really love to spend some time with you" take him out to the cinema or something??
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