kookie

i know how you feel i was 16 when i had my first 18 with my second and just had my third at 23 i got all those comments 2 my father and sister even said "well hopefully she'll lose it"as much as that hurt i tried to ignore them i knew i was gonna be a great mum people can be so cruel sometimes even those closest to you but fuck if they cant support you they can get fucked i know its hard but try and ignore them your gonna make a great mum.

Tilly

It's only normal to have those worries Rachel, but they are just magnified (if that makes sense) because you're being told you're too young and no good. Im sure you will do the best for your baby and prove everyone wrong, just because you're young, doesn't make you a bad person or a bad mummy.

Rachel16+Bump

IS IT NORMAL FOR ME TO KEEP HAVING THESE STUPIT FEELINS THEN?
THAT AM GOIN TO BE A CRAP MUM..

I WANNA IGNORE EVERYTHING WHAT THERE SAYIN BU ITS HARD, AN AM NOT WA YOU CALL THE STRONGEST PERSON TO DEAL WITH ALL THAT. EVERYONE THANKS FOR LISTENING TO ME GO ON AN ON ABOUT THE WAY I FEEL JUST NEED TO GET ALL THIS SHIT OUT OTHER WISE AM GONNA GO MENTAL.

XX

Jazzy

I'm sure you will be a great mum, every pregnant woman flips out at things, its the hormones sweetie

Tilly

I thought I was going to be a crap mum and sometimes I still don't feel confident. A baby is a huge responsibility, women in their mid 30's get nervous and you are quite a bit younger, so it's definitely normal.

Hope you are ok.

Rachel16+Bump

WISH THESE DAMN HORMONES WOULD LEAVE ME ALONE THERE DRIVING ME NUTS, FUCK KNOWS WHAT ID HAVE DONE IF I DIDNT HAVE ALL YOUS TO TALK TO ON ERE XXX

genkigemini

Hi Rachel,

When I was in HS, a good friend of mine got pregnant at 15 and had her son at 16. She had to leave school but now has a beautiful 12 year old son and she is a great mother to him. Age means nothing. As long as you love your child, that is all that matters. I wish you all the luck in the world and I am sure things will be okay for you.

Please try your best not to let stupid people get to you, ok?

Sarah

Ellianna

Racheal! Listen to me huni
You are not going to be a crap mum! You are going to be a great mum
And you know why? Because you are doing the best you can and every step of the way you're thinking about your baby.
Stop being so hard on yourself huni, everybody feels down sometimes. I have James by my side all the time and I still feel shit and want to cry and shout at him! And I do both of those things! lol
What other people think doesn't matter because at the end of the day you're going to have a beautiful baby who you will love more than anything. Its a massive thing you're having to adjust to and you need to stop beating yourself up about it because you're doing just fine.

OK?
xx

Rachel16+Bump

Thank you, il be fine just not at grips with my moods changin so fast over nothing owa u ?? x

toriaaaaTRASH

My mum keeps saying her baby is having a baby. I've never really taken it as a negative thing though. When I'm 30 I'll still be a baby to my mum. Have things calmed down abit now?