I hate people who think they have the right to judge others, especially when they no nothing about you!
I was working...quite clearing Working! (in asda uniform..pretty noticable!) and an old man started on me because its apparently ''me and my type of people'' that cause the reductions in his pension!! Then an older lady i work with got onto him n told him I worked for my money and had a fully supportive partner and he said "pfftt...theres a first for everything then" before walking away. Sheer cheek!!
I am sorry you have encountered some awful people, the only thing I can say is ignore them - no one has the right to judge you or tell you what is right or wrong, until they lead your life and know the facts then perhaps they can comment! x
I hate people like that so judgemental - it makes me sick for all they know you could of worked and have more money than they have people are too quick to past judgement. Half those people are probably in council houses and for all they know your mum could have her own house. lol just makes me laugh.
Regarding seat on bus thing Im 22 years old and 27 weeks pregnant and still dont get offered a seat and its very noticible that im pregnant it just makes me sick.
Hope baby comes soon hun and everything goes well with birth x
i hate people like that!
last year i broke my foot and was on crutches couldnt afford taxis to get to work every day so i got the bus.
its always chocker by the time i get on it anyway but i thought 1 person at least would budge for me bearing in mind i wasnt steady on my feet. not one bugger moved an then i clocked this man... say late 40's camped out with a briefcase next to him an holding his broadsheet newspaper across the two seats, so i stumbled over with crutches in one hand. and said "excuse me" refering to him to shift his briefcase and arms holdin the massive newspaper.
"i dont think so young lady, my briefcase is very expensive and its not going on the dirty floor to be covered in gum" i booted off few expletives followed by shift your pompose arse now. grrrrrrrrrrrr i h8 people ykno.
its only gonna get worse now am pregnant.
Welcome to bnb. Hope your well? Sorry to hear of your problems- i have had that quite alot as i was 16 when i had my 1st and i am 26 now with 5, (all planned other than 1st ) my poartner and I both work to support us all(not to say its wrong if you don work!!) and people alwasy think if you havea few kids ur on benefits. It nobodys business but yours and people should not b so assuming. anyhow jus try to be calom and say to them politely that your partner provides for you, i would ask them where they get their income to see how it felt. anyhow by now you prob have your lo in your arms and are melting!!! good luck xx
How bloody rude!!! Do know what everyone complians about the young people of today but i reckon the oldens need to take a good hard look at them selfs!!!
i no axactly how u feel ma sis is 8 months preg n she 18 n im 19 with a baby on the way n we have had so many dirty looks 1 i had to say something n i went craxy felt sorry for the girl that got the end of me, jus at the end of the day, they dont no u, u no u and u no tha ur not and be proud of it there is nothing wrong with people being on benefits if they are preg and dont have any other finacial support, i think that people look down on us young ones and think that we are a waste of space, we are making the next generation and when they if they fail then they can be a judge and begrude us untill then they shud keep there eyes to themselvs, they obviousily have nothing better to do then look at what they seem is bad in the teens of today.
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