ok so does any one else realize that when you think things are starting to go good and then a load of bad things happen one after the other! To start off Adam [bumps dad] fucking with my head which i don't need at all, he cant make his mind up at all, he continually changes his mind or tells different people different things. Then i got a really bad chesty cough and because they wont give me anything for it, its getting worse and now i just found out my Grandad, who has been fighting cancer for the last two years has been took into hospital because he lost a further 3 stone and they found the cancer again but this time its spread to his lungs, this time they cant treat it! am scared because they don't think he will have long, what if he doesn't get the chance to meet bump, bump will grow up not knowing him, he is the bestest man ever!
i wouldnt let your babies dad bother you, lads love to mess with ur head swapping and changing their minds over babies, at the end of the day i think if he really didnt wana know he would have said from the start. sorry to hear about your grandad though hope he gets better or atleast stable atleast until you have ur baby. xxx
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The following user says 'Thanks' to jenny873 for this post:
Firstly I'm sorry to hear about your grandad *hugs* as for Adam, i'd tell him he is to make a choice and not to contact you until that choice has been made, harsh I know but its the baby that matters in all of this and its not fair on u not knowing whats going on
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The following user says 'Thanks' to Jazzy for this post:
Oh and adam, just try your best not to let him get to you. You have more important things to worry about in the mean time, you dont need him upseting you
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The following user says 'Thanks' to xarlenex for this post:
Sorry things are rubbish huni
Like someone said, I think you need to tell Adam that he needs to decide once and for all what he's going to do and how involved he's going to be with the baby because what he's doing now isn't fair on you or the baby.
Hope things get better with your granded, its horrible when things like that happen to people you love. Just try and stay as optimistic as possible (easier said than done I know)
You know I'm here sweetie
xx
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The following user says 'Thanks' to Ellianna for this post:
Things just don't seem easy for me at the minute and things with Adam don't make life easy, i am going to try and forget about him for know and concentrate on what is really important, Bump and Grandad!! i need both of them to stay strong and healthy, i want them to know each other so badly. its just hard when everything goes bad at once, coming on here and talking to everyone on here helps me so much. just hope my Grandad gets better and carries on fighting. He keeps telling me " everyone has to die at some point " i just don't want it to my Grandad thats all.
MEN!! They're all so confusing. I'll never get them, EVER. Just tell him to make his mind up one way or another because floating around in the middle isn't doing any of you any favours!
Hope your grandad gets to meet bub x
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The following user says 'Thanks' to toriaaaaTRASH for this post:
am scared because they don't think he will have long, what if he doesn't get the chance to meet bump, bump will grow up not knowing him, he is the bestest man ever! 
I hope hes got the strength to keep him going to meet your little one 
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