Heya
After posting on another thread I was just wondering what kind of family everyone has and how they reacted to your pregnancy.
My family consists of:
My Eldest brother is my dads son from his first marriage - Cal 28
My Second eldest brother is my dads second son from his first marriage - Jayden 26
My Eldest sister is my dads daughter from his first marriage - Livvi 25
My Third eldest brother is my mum and dads first child - Liam 23
My Fourth eldest brother is my mum and dads second child - Robbie 20
Then there's me I'm 17
My little brother from my dads third marriage - Luka 4
My little sister from my dads third marriage - Nicole 18 months
Two Brothers - Liam + Robbie
Three Half Brothers - Cal + Jayden + Luka
Two Half Sisters - Nicole + Livvi
Then there's My mum and dad, my mums husband and my dad's wife!
As you can imagine my four older brothers wern't very happy about my pregnancy at all. Jayden, Liam and James (my OH) got in a massive fight about it about but when they realised James was serious about having the baby and that he would support us they layed off him a bit. They're still not best pleased about it but I'm hoping that when it's closer to the baby coming they'll be feeling better about it and looking forward to being uncles.
Livvi was amazing, she gave me lots of hugs and talked everything through with both me and James and made us (especially me) feel so much better about it.
Luka and Nicole are obviosly too young to understand but I have told Luka that he's gona be an uncle and he just said 'Your having a baby? Why??' lol
So what was everyone else's family like?
Did anyone else have a problem with protective older brothers?
Georgina 22 - dads first baby - half sister
Jamie - 19 - mum an dads first baby together
Me - 16 - mum an dads second baby together
Jessi - 15 - mum an dads third baby together
Cortney - 5 - dads girl friends daughter from previous - step sister
Aj - 2 - dad and ex girlfriends first baby together - half brother
Elyssa - 1 - dad and ex girlfriends second baby together - half sister
Madison - bump [6 weeks left ] - dad and ex girlfriends third baby together - half sister
Then theres Mum, dad and dads ex [still really close with dads ex]
Jamie my older brother was protective at first and was fumingg over it but now he is coming to terms with it n stuff so am lucky, was just other family members who still aren't happy with the situation and that so they will have to try n get over it because its not going away haha xx
They all think it's best if I get rid of it because I'm not with my boyfriend anymore but I don't want to so when I go back to the Doctors I'm just going to have to tell them that I want to keep it if everything goes ok. I think that they're just really diappointed in him, which I am too it's not like it was a fling but still he decided to go anyway.
The only thing they are worried about is supporting me and the baby and what other people will think. But if they judge me for a mistake that's been made then I don't think that they're worth knowing anyway and the friends I have told are very supportive.
Mine were all shocked at first then even more shocked when i broke up with babies dad (still really gd mates tho and he is going to play a big part in her life) but now everyone cnt wait and is really happy, my bro's cnt wait to be uncles but they are younger than me so prob not as protective.
Everyone's pretty thrilled. My dad was a bit shocked, it took him a while to be able to talk about the baby but he has definitely come around. Everyone else just can't wait.
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Ok well my family consists of
My mom Karen 39
My Step-dad Kevin 48
Martin Joseph Whyte (my step-brother) He's 29.
Jackson-Robert William Jason Campbell-Whyte(My Adopted Brother) he's 26
Alexa-Jade Galleria Elizabeth Campbell-Whyte(My Adopted Sister) She's 25.
Then the twins(my other adopted brother and sister):
Carmen-Ruby Nicole Elizabeth Sanchez-Whyte 24.
Noah-Ian Zachary James Sanchez-Whyte 24.
Alejandro-Jake Daniel James Myres-Whyte (my biological brother) He's 20.
Bailey-Chanel Adrienne Elizabeth Ramierez (Me) I'm 18.
And Mom is due a surprise in June!!!
Jackson Martin Noah and Alejandro were very annoyed when I told them and they said they were gonna kick Malakai's ass!!! Thankfully they didn't and just sat him down and had a chat with him to this day i don't know what they said but everything has been fine between them since!!!
My sisters were just dissapointed really but AJ was sooooooo supportive she really helped mt through and ahe helped me tell mom and stuff couldn't of done it without her.
Mom screamed and ranted but she got over it and was helpful Kevin was sooooo supportive he really was an angel he didn't scream he just asked me what he cold do to help!!!
Last edited by mommy2raven : 16-01-2008 at 21:39 PM.
Reason: Forgot to answer something
Most of my mums side of the family accepted it and came around really quickly..my dads side is another story. My dads accepted it now though. My boyfriends family were all chuffed x
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