Well.. my family seems pretty small..
Theres my mum, her OH, my dad, my half bro, my sister, my OH and my niece.
Neil; dads first kid in first marrage. 30
Fran; mum and dads first. 20
Me; mum and dads 2nd. 16
Kaila; my sisters 1st baby 2
Craig; my other half. 19
My mum was shocked. Asked me if i was having an abortion. I said I didn't know. I decided to keep the baby. Told my sister, who didn't believe me, made me do a test in front of her. My niece- Doesn't understand, just pats my tum and says "Baby?" And my brother doesn't know, :S!!!! He lives in Australia so havn't spoke to him since I found out! I didn't tell my dad. I havn't seen him for years. Someone told him and he said "Oh did ****** (My mum) say that it was alright then? Stupid... (Insert nasty names!!) "
Everyone else was shocked but they had to come round to it really. They had the option.. from me and my OH and my mum. Get used to it. Like it or F**k off out of our lives. Their choice!
Although my nan did take my birthday cake off me! I told her on my 16th birthday when I was 16 weeks gone, and she said "Well you can't eat chocolate or you'll get very fat"
Im an only child!
so its bascically just me, mum and dad, but then obv my aunties,. uncles etc. But OH is one of 11! so theres a lot of them there!!. All same parents tho!
We havent told our families yet. want to wait till after 12 weeks. just incses something happens
I'm not a teen so most of my family were happy but my dad who I have little to do with kept talking about it like it was a mistake saying "well what can we do about it" & how he'll love me no matter what happens!?!?! He's a little strange though because he drinks.
My uncle has been more of a father figure to me and he was the only other one who was concerned. He's happy for me but worries about whether my r/ship will last and stuff like that - just as a dad would.
Im an only child so theres only:
Mum- 45
Nan-64
me-18
I live wid them^
OH-19
his mum- 44
his dad-48
younger sis- 17
younger bro- 8
My Mum was really disappointed as was my nan, did'nt really shout. They wanted me to have an abortion but accepted it when I said i was'nt having one. OH wanted me to have an abortion at first as did his family. Now OH is happy, but a bit scared of being a Daddy, his family are a bit split. His Mum said i was a dirty little slag and she didnt think it was her sons, she is still convinced ive been sleeping around either that or I got preggers on purpose to trap him. His Dad does'nt really say much about it. His sister is excited and is always asking me questions about bump. His brother doesnt really understand, but just says "im gonna be an uncle" to his friends or says to random people "shes going to have a baby" and points at me lol. xxxxxxxxxxxx
Immediately speaking, there's my mum and her partner, my brother (who lives with his other half), and my sister who also had a baby at my age.
My mother was the first to find out as she was at the doctors with me and I was in such shock that I got the nurse to call her in from the waiting room - she took it a lot better than I did!
Everyone was a bit shocked, but ultimately supportive and loving about it... my mum did throw us out, though! But since she did the same for my sister when she was my age and expecting I guess that's only fair...
My grandmother, stuck in her old-fashioned ways, was the only one who took it badly really... She's never approved of my husband because he has muscular dystrophy - (when I first took him round there to meet her she asked him to leave his wheelchair at the door!) - and when she found out that I was pregnant she tried to claim that he hadn't got me pregnant but I had got him pregnant - to which I couldn't resist replying that he's a right goer and his favorite position is doggy-style! She also said that "people like that" shouldn't be allowed to have kids along with a few other nasty things... surprisingly not much about my age, though!
So, in all, my family have been pretty good about the whole thing.........
Im not a teenager either, I was 20 when I found out about the baby.
Theres me (21)
Matt, my boyfriend (24)
My Mum (god knows)
My step mum (42)
My Dad (45)
My step brother, Simon (1
My half brother Nathan (7)
OHs sister (20)
OHs brother (1
Everyone on his side of the family took it pretty well.
Ive had problems with my mam and step mam because I dont really have a relationship with my mam and she wants to be involved.
My dads a bit funny about it because he feels to young to be a grandad.
My grandparents have been funny because we arent married.
But apart from that everyone has been fine!
xxx
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