New and confused... Help please!

thompsonic · Aug 6th, 2009, 14:28 PM

Hi everyone, this is my first post here, but I've known about the site for a while.
I need some help. I am really confused and need some reassurance.

Me and my boyfriend had unprotected sex on the 4th August (only 2 days ago). I my last period started on the 13th July which means that the sex was after my ovulation, because it was a week before my period was due. Also, he didn't cum inside me, but I'm worried about the pre cum.

Since then I've been really emotional, crying over everything and then suddenly happy. I've also been feeling sick, having tummy ache and going off my food. I'm not stupid, I know I can't get symptoms this early so I'm obviously giving myself them subconsciously, though I have no idea why.

I was just hoping someone could please reassure me that I'm NOT pregnant and it's all in my head, I would sure appreciate it.

Thanks,
Elly. x

mayflower · Aug 6th, 2009, 14:32 PM

Try not to worry to much just yet - there is no way you would be having pg symptoms now, it is far too early for that. The earliest you would be able to tell with a super sensitive test is about one week's time, maybe later.
xx

thompsonic · Aug 6th, 2009, 14:39 PM

Thanks, I'm trying not to worry, I just over react and get carried away with myself. I've got a week to wait for my period anyway, but it's so tempting to keep coming on BnB which really doesn't help

purpledaisy2 · Aug 6th, 2009, 14:52 PM

The morning after pill can work upto 72 hours after having sex.

Could take it to put your mind at rest abit more while you wait for your period.

Its super unlikely you will have caught on anyway.

thompsonic · Aug 6th, 2009, 14:59 PM

I would take it if I could, but I'm packing all day tomorrow (going on holiday early Sunday) and my mum won't let me get away, I don't really feel comfortable telling her why I would be going. Plus I have serious issues with swallowing pills, never been able to do it in my life :L pathetic I know, but I've never been able to master it. Thanks for replying, it's made me feel a little bit less alone right now...

Jomum2b-again · Aug 6th, 2009, 15:06 PM

do u think subconsciously u dont want to take the pill? and i no wat u mean bout not being able to swallow tablets lol i cant do it either, nd its not pathetic, its a real problem lol i hav 2 ask 4 all of my medication in liquid form lmao soo embarrassing anyways i wish u all the best watever happens

x

thompsonic · Aug 6th, 2009, 15:10 PM

Thanks Jo. TBH, I think you might be right.
I've always been a very maternal person, and even though it's been only three days, I've kinda gotten used to (and even excited about) the prospect of having a baby. I would never purposely try and get pregnant at my age, but I'm scared I'll be really upset when I get my period.

HotChocolate · Aug 6th, 2009, 15:17 PM

Aww bless ya, i've taken it before but honestly.. Not being able to swallow pills is the last thing you'll be worried about if you really don't want to risk being pregnant hun.

& when you said about us reassuring you that it's all in your head.. I'd love to but nobody knows whether it is all in your head and you're subcontiously feeling pregnant, or not. Although i can say good luck and if it's possible for you to get out of the house tomorrow and get the morning after pill, take the oppurtunity, because it sounds as though you DON'T want to be pregnant..?

I can tell you that if he didn't cum inside you, there's less of a chance of you being pregnant

i hope you're alright and you do what's best for you. Good luck xxx

Jomum2b-again · Aug 6th, 2009, 15:18 PM

Then its completely your decision hun if u feel like u cud cope now at ur age with a baby and give it evrything it needs then dont let urself b pushed into taking the pill wen u really dont want to, i was the same wen i was pregnant with my 1st, i was 16, then turned 17 while i was pregnant, my bf wanted me to hav an abortion nd my mum did too, but i stood up to them both nd sed no, its what i want, it just means now i have to work harder and make the best of what i've got

nd now i'm pregnant again nd due 2 start college in september!! lol but i wouldnt change anything and i dont regret any decisions i've made. sorri for the life story lol but it myt help

hopefully anyways xx

sarah0108 · Aug 6th, 2009, 15:42 PM

hey hun try not to worry JUST yet, just enjoy your time being free, cause if you do find out your pregnant you wont be able to do that

you will be fine, just stick it out until Period day lol and dont stress too much, you will only upset yourself

x x good luck

Btw im 16 lol

Aug 6th, 2009, 14:28 PM	#1
thompsonic Waiting To Try (WTT) Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: Peterborough, England Posts: 953	New and confused... Help please! Hi everyone, this is my first post here, but I've known about the site for a while. I need some help. I am really confused and need some reassurance. Me and my boyfriend had unprotected sex on the 4th August (only 2 days ago). I my last period started on the 13th July which means that the sex was after my ovulation, because it was a week before my period was due. Also, he didn't cum inside me, but I'm worried about the pre cum. Since then I've been really emotional, crying over everything and then suddenly happy. I've also been feeling sick, having tummy ache and going off my food. I'm not stupid, I know I can't get symptoms this early so I'm obviously giving myself them subconsciously, though I have no idea why. I was just hoping someone could please reassure me that I'm NOT pregnant and it's all in my head, I would sure appreciate it. Thanks, Elly. x

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Aug 6th, 2009, 14:32 PM	#2
mayflower Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2008 Posts: 73	Try not to worry to much just yet - there is no way you would be having pg symptoms now, it is far too early for that. The earliest you would be able to tell with a super sensitive test is about one week's time, maybe later. xx

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Aug 6th, 2009, 14:39 PM	#3
thompsonic Waiting To Try (WTT) Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: Peterborough, England Posts: 953	Thanks, I'm trying not to worry, I just over react and get carried away with myself. I've got a week to wait for my period anyway, but it's so tempting to keep coming on BnB which really doesn't help

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Aug 6th, 2009, 14:52 PM	#4
purpledaisy2 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: Up North, UK Posts: 3,654	The morning after pill can work upto 72 hours after having sex. Could take it to put your mind at rest abit more while you wait for your period. Its super unlikely you will have caught on anyway.

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Aug 6th, 2009, 14:59 PM	#5
thompsonic Waiting To Try (WTT) Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: Peterborough, England Posts: 953	I would take it if I could, but I'm packing all day tomorrow (going on holiday early Sunday) and my mum won't let me get away, I don't really feel comfortable telling her why I would be going. Plus I have serious issues with swallowing pills, never been able to do it in my life :L pathetic I know, but I've never been able to master it. Thanks for replying, it's made me feel a little bit less alone right now...

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Aug 6th, 2009, 15:06 PM	#6
Jomum2b-again Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: Manchester Posts: 361	do u think subconsciously u dont want to take the pill? and i no wat u mean bout not being able to swallow tablets lol i cant do it either, nd its not pathetic, its a real problem lol i hav 2 ask 4 all of my medication in liquid form lmao soo embarrassing anyways i wish u all the best watever happens x

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Aug 6th, 2009, 15:10 PM	#7
thompsonic Waiting To Try (WTT) Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: Peterborough, England Posts: 953	Thanks Jo. TBH, I think you might be right. I've always been a very maternal person, and even though it's been only three days, I've kinda gotten used to (and even excited about) the prospect of having a baby. I would never purposely try and get pregnant at my age, but I'm scared I'll be really upset when I get my period.

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Aug 6th, 2009, 15:17 PM	#8
HotChocolate Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: Northampton Posts: 274	Aww bless ya, i've taken it before but honestly.. Not being able to swallow pills is the last thing you'll be worried about if you really don't want to risk being pregnant hun. & when you said about us reassuring you that it's all in your head.. I'd love to but nobody knows whether it is all in your head and you're subcontiously feeling pregnant, or not. Although i can say good luck and if it's possible for you to get out of the house tomorrow and get the morning after pill, take the oppurtunity, because it sounds as though you DON'T want to be pregnant..? I can tell you that if he didn't cum inside you, there's less of a chance of you being pregnant i hope you're alright and you do what's best for you. Good luck xxx

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Aug 6th, 2009, 15:18 PM	#9
Jomum2b-again Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: Manchester Posts: 361	Then its completely your decision hun if u feel like u cud cope now at ur age with a baby and give it evrything it needs then dont let urself b pushed into taking the pill wen u really dont want to, i was the same wen i was pregnant with my 1st, i was 16, then turned 17 while i was pregnant, my bf wanted me to hav an abortion nd my mum did too, but i stood up to them both nd sed no, its what i want, it just means now i have to work harder and make the best of what i've got nd now i'm pregnant again nd due 2 start college in september!! lol but i wouldnt change anything and i dont regret any decisions i've made. sorri for the life story lol but it myt help hopefully anyways xx

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Aug 6th, 2009, 15:42 PM	#10
sarah0108 Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: May 2009 Location: Amongst the chaos Posts: 14,893	hey hun try not to worry JUST yet, just enjoy your time being free, cause if you do find out your pregnant you wont be able to do that you will be fine, just stick it out until Period day lol and dont stress too much, you will only upset yourself x x good luck Btw im 16 lol

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