Im scared im going to be a bad mum

Momma2Bee · Aug 2nd, 2009, 19:29 PM

I cant help it, every time i think about when my babys actually going to come i think im going to be a terrible mum. I dunno how im going to cope, im terrifide ill do such a horrible job and not be able to take care of a baby. I think im going to have a panic attack just thinking about having my baby

Tasha · Aug 2nd, 2009, 19:32 PM

This is so normal hun, every pregnant Mummy goes through this what ever there age, but you will love your baby and will be a fab mum.

Alexas Mommy · Aug 2nd, 2009, 19:35 PM

Just wanted to send

LucyOF · Aug 2nd, 2009, 19:37 PM

Alot of people get feelings like this. My friend felt exactly the same when she had her baby but as soon as he was home her insticts just cut in and she was an amazing mum. She couldnt believe it herself. Im sure you will be fine, talk to friends or family with children and im sure you'll pick up some tips and guidance.

Dont worry, im sure you will be an amazing mummy.

x

Emily-Rose · Aug 2nd, 2009, 22:13 PM

I'm sure you'll be a good mommy

It's a natural instinct when baba comes

Emily.x

Momof2kiddos · Aug 2nd, 2009, 23:40 PM

i believe every women regardless of age, goes through this. im having my second and im still scared about things. what if i dont have enough love for both my babies? and i know for a fact before i had Evan i had those thoughts you are having, i chose to think about it like this. the fact that you are worried shows how much you already love and care for this baby, you will do great. just remember, no mom does everything perfectly, there will be times you will mess up so just know that thats ok

K1nS · Aug 3rd, 2009, 06:09 AM

Alot of people feel this hun, its normal. I'm sure you will be a great mum

Ickle K G · Aug 3rd, 2009, 06:19 AM

Most people feel like this, don't worry though you will be a great mum it comes naturally and if you feel you need abit of help you can talk to your MW or HV and they will give you advice.

Serene123 · Aug 3rd, 2009, 06:26 AM

Completely normal.

You'll be fine

sarah0108 · Aug 3rd, 2009, 08:08 AM

Definatley normal babe!

as soon as your baby is born things just come natural to you, and over time you learn to know what means what, when your baby cries you will know how to settle it etc.

you will be fine honestly!

x

Aug 2nd, 2009, 19:29 PM	#1
Momma2Bee Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: Scotland Posts: 365	Im scared im going to be a bad mum I cant help it, every time i think about when my babys actually going to come i think im going to be a terrible mum. I dunno how im going to cope, im terrifide ill do such a horrible job and not be able to take care of a baby. I think im going to have a panic attack just thinking about having my baby

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Aug 2nd, 2009, 19:32 PM	#2
Tasha Other BnB Elite Join Date: Jul 2008 Posts: 13,789	This is so normal hun, every pregnant Mummy goes through this what ever there age, but you will love your baby and will be a fab mum.
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Aug 2nd, 2009, 19:35 PM	#3
Alexas Mommy Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: Canada Posts: 7,246	Just wanted to send

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Aug 2nd, 2009, 19:37 PM	#4
LucyOF Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: England Posts: 31	Alot of people get feelings like this. My friend felt exactly the same when she had her baby but as soon as he was home her insticts just cut in and she was an amazing mum. She couldnt believe it herself. Im sure you will be fine, talk to friends or family with children and im sure you'll pick up some tips and guidance. Dont worry, im sure you will be an amazing mummy. x

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Aug 2nd, 2009, 22:13 PM	#5
Emily-Rose Waiting To Try (WTT) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jul 2009 Posts: 22	I'm sure you'll be a good mommy It's a natural instinct when baba comes Emily.x

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Aug 2nd, 2009, 23:40 PM	#6
Momof2kiddos Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: Georgia Posts: 292	i believe every women regardless of age, goes through this. im having my second and im still scared about things. what if i dont have enough love for both my babies? and i know for a fact before i had Evan i had those thoughts you are having, i chose to think about it like this. the fact that you are worried shows how much you already love and care for this baby, you will do great. just remember, no mom does everything perfectly, there will be times you will mess up so just know that thats ok

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Aug 3rd, 2009, 06:09 AM	#7
K1nS Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: Swansea, South Wales Posts: 488	Alot of people feel this hun, its normal. I'm sure you will be a great mum

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Aug 3rd, 2009, 06:19 AM	#8
Ickle K G Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jun 2009 Posts: 325	Most people feel like this, don't worry though you will be a great mum it comes naturally and if you feel you need abit of help you can talk to your MW or HV and they will give you advice.

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Aug 3rd, 2009, 06:26 AM	#9
Serene123 Other Active BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2007 Posts: 32,048	Completely normal. You'll be fine

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Aug 3rd, 2009, 08:08 AM	#10
sarah0108 Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: May 2009 Location: Amongst the chaos Posts: 14,893	Definatley normal babe! as soon as your baby is born things just come natural to you, and over time you learn to know what means what, when your baby cries you will know how to settle it etc. you will be fine honestly! x

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