hey i'm just wondering, are you all still with the dad? i am, but am wondering sometimes if i might be better off on my own?? lol i am just kidding....somewhat....sometimes i wonder, like when he goes out with his friends and i am at home...maybe just cuz we're young? does anyone else have this problem??? don't get me wrong i ADORE tommy, but get sad sometimes lol pregnancy hormones maybe lol
im on my own
i was with garry for 5 years wed been sleeping together 2 before i fell preg id always sed if i did fall pregnant i was keeping the baby! and he agreed
till i told him i was pregnant then he did everything to pursuade me to have an abortion with the help of his mother the EVIL bitch,
i went on to have my baby boy by my self Garry was the doting dad for the first two weeks till he was on the birth certifcate then he disappeared again till B's christening wen he moaned about everything even tho i paid organized invited his family even tho most of them hadnt met Braydon before (he was 7 months then ) now he has been gone again for 3 months sometimes i really miss him and see couples n think my baby should have that but others i think does B need him and i always come to the conclusion of no
wow that really sucks that him n his mom tried to get you to have an abortion, and it sucks that hes in and out of your sons life, hopefully he firgures out what he wants so your little one doesn't stress over it, that would make me really pissed guys......they are so stressful....glad to hear you are doing well alone i'm sure you are right, you are ALL your little boy needs xxx
my opinion on dads that walk out is f**k them, they don't deserve kids! Get as much money out of them as you can and raise the child how you see fit. I believe children need a father figure but this doesn't always have to be the actual father, they need a positive male influence and somebody they can respect not a low life selfish toe rag who can walk away from his offspring just because they don't fit into thier social life or might be inconveinenced to raise their own flesh and blood.
Nah fair does it! Had to call my mate last night her OH has left her with 3 kids! Said he loves her but isn't in love with her & has felt this way for years! Errrr they have a 2 year old - How many years is he talking here?
Sad thing is her two older boys have different fathers, we all make mistakes with the people we fall in love with. One ex walked out on her an the kid too then the next was an ass now this guy whos been the father figure in her boys lives has walked out on the 4 of them.
Shes feeling really low & embarrassed - Thinks people will see her as the single mum with 3 kids to 3 diff men an another notch on the bed post!
my first marriage fell apart when charlie was 3 and ethan was 18 months.
I moved out and took them with me, there dad saw them on weekends for a while.
then one day he met someone and she didnt like him seeing me or the kids so he came round, sat them down and said to there face, I dont love you anymore and dont want to see you again, then just got up and left me to comfort them.
from then on i raised them by myself untill i met jase. he took them on as his own no questions asked! and we legaly changed there sername to his.
the kids love him to bits.
then there real dad came back coz he saw we were happy, and wanted to be part of there lifes again, so now he has them on a friday night.
they have the best of both now.
so hang in ther, your doing a great job or bringing up your babies, and one day you will meet someone who will love them just as much as you do too, i promise!
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guys......they are so stressful....glad to hear you are doing well alone i'm sure you are right, you are ALL your little boy needs 
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