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Old 07-09-2006, 08:31 AM   #11
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OMG!!! Layla that is terrible, how can anybody say anything like that to kids, do they not have a clue what that could do to them????.......Jase no wonder you aint a fan of his!!!!

I am lucky with Paul too, he has taken my DD on as his own no questions asked and we are all really happy........I left my ex when I was 3 months PG after pressure to have an abortion, when he came round to the idea that I was NOT going to have one, he started accepting that he was going to have a baby, but by then I knew that the baby meant much more to me than he ever would, and anyone that wanted to get rid of my baby was not the sort of person I wanted anything to do with. But I told him he could have as much contact as he wanted aswell as his mum, as I don't believe in just because a relationship breaks up that the kids have to suffer.

They were both informed when she was born and had ALL contact details, and to this day we have never heard from either of them!!

But I like it like this I always have done, I got to decide everything with the help of my Mum and to bring her up as I saw fit. And now my OH is the best thing that has ever happened to both of us and we are a very tight happy family unit with another one on the way.......what more could we ask for?! :wink:

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Old 07-09-2006, 08:48 AM   #12
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hey i'm just wondering, are you all still with the dad? i am, but am wondering sometimes if i might be better off on my own?? lol i am just kidding....somewhat....sometimes i wonder, like when he goes out with his friends and i am at home...maybe just cuz we're young? does anyone else have this problem??? don't get me wrong i ADORE tommy, but get sad sometimes lol pregnancy hormones maybe lol
I am with my babys dad. we've been together for 3 years, since i was 16 and he was 17. we took things really fast and moved in together and got ingaged last year when i was 18 and he was 19. Now we;re having a baby and im slowly beginning to realise that maybe we've gone too fast. im not quite sure our relationship is strong enough to support a baby too. we are only young and he likes to go out and have a drink whilst i just sit at home and get fat. all my friends dont like my fiance and have stopped talking to me so now i find that im alone, with a baby in my tummy, and only my fiance for company. some days i wonder what life would be like if i were a single mum, in my opinion it would be heaven.
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yes tommy and me are young too, i am only 18 and he is 23.... we got together when i was 16, got preg with alexis when i was 17, had her right before my 18th bday, and then was preg with # 2 just 2ish months after alexis was born. tommy and i have lived together from day 1 and it gets stressful....but most times its ok.....just i hate that he can go out when he wants but i can't? its not really fair to me i dont think.....maybe i would leave him...except the hardest part (besides me loving him aha ) is that he is an amazing dad, he always has time for alexis....just me he doens't have time for sometimes....its such a pain because if i left him i would move back to my hometown which is about 45 minutes away, and alexis wouldn't be able to see him as much as she should....and then i think that i can get over that and leave him anyways....and he starts being super boyfriend to me :S:S why doens't he just make up his friggin mind???!!!!

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i think its all just pregnancy hormones with me. i just feel so down and the dact that i cant go out/ that i dont have anybody to go out with just makes me feel even worse. i just hate life somedays
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well done jase for wot Layla has sed to me ur brilliant to the Kids and sound like a great dad and i think its great how u r with them
Layla how did u not kill him if G sed that to Braydon id have to kill him!!
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well done jase for wot Layla has sed to me ur brilliant to the Kids and sound like a great dad and i think its great how u r with them
Layla how did u not kill him if G sed that to Braydon id have to kill him!!
ta, i'd like to make him pay, but i'm not allowed to touch him. probably for the best i guess
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Im still with the father of my baby but i dont know how long it will last! I want him to stay with me and he said he is coming round to the idea which is nice but i have said if he doesnt want to stay he can leave! I will have a gorgeous baby regardless!
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Re: fathers??? still here or no???


I am with my babys dad. we've been together for 3 years, since i was 16 and he was 17. we took things really fast and moved in together and got ingaged last year when i was 18 and he was 19. Now we;re having a baby and im slowly beginning to realise that maybe we've gone too fast. im not quite sure our relationship is strong enough to support a baby too. we are only young and he likes to go out and have a drink whilst i just sit at home and get fat. all my friends dont like my fiance and have stopped talking to me so now i find that im alone, with a baby in my tummy, and only my fiance for company. some days i wonder what life would be like if i were a single mum, in my opinion it would be heaven


This is so not true, you still sit at hoem alone, and raise the baby , but on top of it you have NO HELP
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I am still with my sons fater, almost 4 years now
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