Abit of girly advice :)

Hannah :) · Jul 3rd, 2009, 16:56 PM

Ive only been with my boyfriend for just over 2months and things are still in the honeymoon stage of our relationship lol. Im newley pregnant (5weeks) and im abit worried about things ...well in the bedroom if you know what i mean.

Is it safe?

Not that im really feeling upto it at the mo as im well tierd but im panicing over every little thing at the moment and when it happends eventualy which it will, i just wanna know its not going to put the baby at risk.

Can anyone help?

x

aidensxmomma · Jul 3rd, 2009, 17:33 PM

As long as you are in the low-risk category for your pregnancy, there shouldn't be a problem. But if you experience any bleeding, spotting, or cramping afterwards, I would talk to your doctor. But other than that, go ahead.

jelix9408 · Jul 3rd, 2009, 17:44 PM

its actually shown that sex is good during pregnancy. me and my OH have had a normal sex life throughout the whole pregnancy. plus sex is better while pregnant (well .. its is for me lol)

AtomicPink · Jul 3rd, 2009, 18:58 PM

Yes, it's fine, but if you have any spotting, stop and see the midwife. X

tasha41 · Jul 3rd, 2009, 22:54 PM

Unless it hurts.. I'd say you're safe to do it, unless your doctor has told you not to.

Enjoy it while you can!!

Sophemma16 · Jul 4th, 2009, 16:56 PM

I rekon it shoulf be fine hun

Char&Bump-x · Jul 4th, 2009, 17:11 PM

I've had sex practically everyday throughout my pregnancy and doing just fine.
Like the others said though, if you get any bad pain or blood see your doctor just to be on the safe side x

moomin_troll · Jul 4th, 2009, 17:18 PM

i had only been with now hubby for 7 months when i got pregnant and like u we were still in the honeymoon stage hence getting pregnant hahaha

for the first 12 weeks my oh didnt wana have sex with me and that made me feel like crap, it was cuz i had a bleed at 6 weeks and he was just scared.

like u feel now i wasnt really up for sex and we didnt really do it that much while pregnant.

but u dont need to have sex to get intimate with ur fella, ule be suprised at how important hugs and kisses are now and especialy when ur lo is here (congrats btw) making sure u hug atleast once a day and make sure u kiss and also make private time like lie in bed and just hold each other and chat, it will bring u closer together and help u both out. being pregnant is hard enough let alone startin out in a new relationship, also u will find a good bump n back rub heaven as u get bigger lol

HotChocolate · Jul 5th, 2009, 06:11 AM

Sex is better when pregnant

i'll start by saying that lol
but i bled the first time or after a few times.. Which worried me so i went to the hospital, had a scan and everything was fine, this was at 9 weeks and i still bleed sometimes now.. It is worrying! But if it's alot of blood and it looks like wound blood.. deep red, then there's a problem, other than that, it's normal. especially around the time you'd normally be on your period, that's what my midwife told me anyway. I think i only bled because i'd had a laparoscopy before and i was still healing.
Sex is also proven to be extremely healthy during pregnancy and good for the baby

i'd advise you to go ahead and try it. xx

jazmine18 · Jul 5th, 2009, 06:19 AM

yea my OH didnt want to have sex with me at first, he was worried something would happen, even though i assured him it was fine. then after that i never felt like it, so for the whole of my pregnancy and until my daughter was 5 months old we never had sex once lool..but yeah unless advised by doctor otherwise then its fine

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Hannah :) Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: UK Posts: 780	Abit of girly advice :) Ive only been with my boyfriend for just over 2months and things are still in the honeymoon stage of our relationship lol. Im newley pregnant (5weeks) and im abit worried about things ...well in the bedroom if you know what i mean. Is it safe? Not that im really feeling upto it at the mo as im well tierd but im panicing over every little thing at the moment and when it happends eventualy which it will, i just wanna know its not going to put the baby at risk. Can anyone help? x

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aidensxmomma Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: May 2008 Location: Wisconsin, U.S. Posts: 2,874	As long as you are in the low-risk category for your pregnancy, there shouldn't be a problem. But if you experience any bleeding, spotting, or cramping afterwards, I would talk to your doctor. But other than that, go ahead.

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jelix9408 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: hollywood florida Posts: 820	its actually shown that sex is good during pregnancy. me and my OH have had a normal sex life throughout the whole pregnancy. plus sex is better while pregnant (well .. its is for me lol)

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AtomicPink Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Scotland Posts: 19,122	Yes, it's fine, but if you have any spotting, stop and see the midwife. X

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tasha41 Mum (Mom) BnB Spammer Elite Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: Hamilton, Canada Posts: 23,921	Unless it hurts.. I'd say you're safe to do it, unless your doctor has told you not to. Enjoy it while you can!!

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Sophemma16 Mum (Mom) Inactive Join Date: Jul 2009 Posts: 10	I rekon it shoulf be fine hun

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Char&Bump-x Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: La La Land Posts: 5,945	I've had sex practically everyday throughout my pregnancy and doing just fine. Like the others said though, if you get any bad pain or blood see your doctor just to be on the safe side x

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moomin_troll Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: staffordshire Posts: 14,583	i had only been with now hubby for 7 months when i got pregnant and like u we were still in the honeymoon stage hence getting pregnant hahaha for the first 12 weeks my oh didnt wana have sex with me and that made me feel like crap, it was cuz i had a bleed at 6 weeks and he was just scared. like u feel now i wasnt really up for sex and we didnt really do it that much while pregnant. but u dont need to have sex to get intimate with ur fella, ule be suprised at how important hugs and kisses are now and especialy when ur lo is here (congrats btw) making sure u hug atleast once a day and make sure u kiss and also make private time like lie in bed and just hold each other and chat, it will bring u closer together and help u both out. being pregnant is hard enough let alone startin out in a new relationship, also u will find a good bump n back rub heaven as u get bigger lol

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Jul 5th, 2009, 06:11 AM	#9
HotChocolate Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: Northampton Posts: 274	Sex is better when pregnant i'll start by saying that lol but i bled the first time or after a few times.. Which worried me so i went to the hospital, had a scan and everything was fine, this was at 9 weeks and i still bleed sometimes now.. It is worrying! But if it's alot of blood and it looks like wound blood.. deep red, then there's a problem, other than that, it's normal. especially around the time you'd normally be on your period, that's what my midwife told me anyway. I think i only bled because i'd had a laparoscopy before and i was still healing. Sex is also proven to be extremely healthy during pregnancy and good for the baby i'd advise you to go ahead and try it. xx

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Jul 5th, 2009, 06:19 AM	#10
jazmine18 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: London Posts: 919	yea my OH didnt want to have sex with me at first, he was worried something would happen, even though i assured him it was fine. then after that i never felt like it, so for the whole of my pregnancy and until my daughter was 5 months old we never had sex once lool..but yeah unless advised by doctor otherwise then its fine

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