Teens living with their oh..

Laura--x · Jun 25th, 2009, 17:52 PM

Do you like it?

would you ever move back in with parents/relatives?

Do you ever get lonely?

Do you think its made your relationship better/worse?

Panda_Ally · Jun 25th, 2009, 19:01 PM

Yes i like it.

I still go and stay with my parents quite a bit but i would never go back to lving there i like my independence.

No i dont get lonely, me and OH are in our little love bubble and eachother and LO are the only company we really need. i always have a hone and BnB if i need it of course and we have separate friend which i thnk helps.

Its put it to the test for sure, were both really messy but blame eachother... our main disagreement are to do with housework etc and who does what. x

Windmills · Jun 25th, 2009, 19:04 PM

I live with my OH, we met a couple of years ago through work but didn't get together until after my 18th birthday as he's 34 and I'm now 19.
So I guess it's a partly different situation.
I really love living with him. I think it's made our relationship so much stronger, although we do really annoy each other sometimes. I wouldn't want to move back in with my mum, I see her a lot because she comes to visit or I go to hers.
I sometimes get lonely because I've always finished work by 12, but he's the manager of a club so they don't close until 3 or 4, and then he has to wait for all the staff to leave so he's usually not home until around 5am. Otherwise, no I don't ever get lonely. My friends come to visit and my sister etc, so I really love living with him

MissRhead · Jun 26th, 2009, 03:52 AM

Id love to live with my Fiance, but because hes in the army we would have to be married. We do live together when hes not away tho and i think if we didnt we wouldnt be as close as we are now, I couldnt imajin him being here and living/sleeping somewhere eles xx

katie_bump · Jun 26th, 2009, 04:46 AM

i moved in with my oh and it made stuff worse.. i missed home alot and ended up moving back.. however i miss living with him.. cant live with him, cant live without him lol

Kimboowee · Jun 26th, 2009, 05:51 AM

Me and my OH lived alone before money issues forced us to my mums!

Is was good to begin with. But he was 18 when we moved in together and before that his mum used to do EVERYTHING for him. He would leave cups everywhere, not clean the bath out, leave the butter out...stuff like that bugs me!!!

He's still a pain in the arse, if something needs doing like putting away washing he has to be supervised!

danniemum2be · Jun 26th, 2009, 06:35 AM

me and my OH live together have done for nearly 6 months. im 19 and he is 21, i was 18 when we moved in together and now im pregnant. i would never go back home, left because was having bad time at home. it has brought us so much closer together, i do get lonely at times as im often on my own but then it makes up for it when he comes home x x

Loveit · Jun 26th, 2009, 07:02 AM

Yes I love it! Cant imagine not waking up next to him now

No would never ever move back. I like the space and the quiet in the day and i love living as a family.

Nope lol i did when i was preg sometimes while OH was at work but now Evies here so i just play with her and get housework done or come on here while shes asleep.

Yeah its made it so much better, we just feel closer and more secure.

Tezzy · Jun 26th, 2009, 07:07 AM

im not a teen now but i was when i had Rhys, me and OH bought our house when i was 19 and he was 20

Do you like it? yes i love being able to raise my children how i want to without any pressure from mine/OHs parents.

would you ever move back in with parents/relatives? no, never, i think of that as a major step back in life, plus mine/OHs parents are really over-bearing and i wouldnt like my kids to turn out like my bro/OHs sisters...

Do you ever get lonely? not really, i like my alone time and if i do get lonely i can always go visit family

Do you think its made your relationship better/worse? its certainly put a strain on our relationship, bills to pay etc can sometimes cause rows but i think we understand eachother better and i couldnt imagine ever not living with my OH

amie-leigh · Jun 26th, 2009, 07:32 AM

OH moved in with me when i'd just turned 17 and he was just about to turn 18 because i wasnt allowed to stay with my grandparents as they were legally over crowed so council sorted me out my own little flat

and then his mother (ahhh that woman) decided she wanted his bedroom so it was £300 month rent (her house was only £250 month) or move out so he moved in

love it we have lived together 2 and a bit years now, wont lie it was hard at beginning having to agree between us rather than just decide myself

i would have liked to stay with my grandparents but they arent far away so still see them often

i sometimes get lonley if OH is at work but i have friends and my grandparents near by so i can go visit them or they come visit me

its made our relationship better in general but has been hard with bills and rent to pay but i always stand by what doesnt kill u makes u stronger

Jun 25th, 2009, 17:52 PM	#1
Laura--x Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: May 2008 Location: England Posts: 8,799	Teens living with their oh.. Do you like it? would you ever move back in with parents/relatives? Do you ever get lonely? Do you think its made your relationship better/worse?

Status: Offline

Jun 25th, 2009, 19:01 PM	#2
Panda_Ally Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jan 2009 Posts: 7,392	Yes i like it. I still go and stay with my parents quite a bit but i would never go back to lving there i like my independence. No i dont get lonely, me and OH are in our little love bubble and eachother and LO are the only company we really need. i always have a hone and BnB if i need it of course and we have separate friend which i thnk helps. Its put it to the test for sure, were both really messy but blame eachother... our main disagreement are to do with housework etc and who does what. x

Status: Offline

Jun 25th, 2009, 19:04 PM	#3
Windmills Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jun 2009 Posts: 8,419	I live with my OH, we met a couple of years ago through work but didn't get together until after my 18th birthday as he's 34 and I'm now 19. So I guess it's a partly different situation. I really love living with him. I think it's made our relationship so much stronger, although we do really annoy each other sometimes. I wouldn't want to move back in with my mum, I see her a lot because she comes to visit or I go to hers. I sometimes get lonely because I've always finished work by 12, but he's the manager of a club so they don't close until 3 or 4, and then he has to wait for all the staff to leave so he's usually not home until around 5am. Otherwise, no I don't ever get lonely. My friends come to visit and my sister etc, so I really love living with him

Status: Offline

Jun 26th, 2009, 03:52 AM	#4
MissRhead Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: Crewe Posts: 1,959	Id love to live with my Fiance, but because hes in the army we would have to be married. We do live together when hes not away tho and i think if we didnt we wouldnt be as close as we are now, I couldnt imajin him being here and living/sleeping somewhere eles xx

Status: Offline

Jun 26th, 2009, 04:46 AM	#5
katie_bump Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: Scotland Posts: 275	i moved in with my oh and it made stuff worse.. i missed home alot and ended up moving back.. however i miss living with him.. cant live with him, cant live without him lol

Status: Offline

Jun 26th, 2009, 05:51 AM	#6
Kimboowee Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: Derbyshire Posts: 9,445	Me and my OH lived alone before money issues forced us to my mums! Is was good to begin with. But he was 18 when we moved in together and before that his mum used to do EVERYTHING for him. He would leave cups everywhere, not clean the bath out, leave the butter out...stuff like that bugs me!!! He's still a pain in the arse, if something needs doing like putting away washing he has to be supervised!

Status: Offline

Jun 26th, 2009, 06:35 AM	#7
danniemum2be Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jun 2009 Posts: 4,519	me and my OH live together have done for nearly 6 months. im 19 and he is 21, i was 18 when we moved in together and now im pregnant. i would never go back home, left because was having bad time at home. it has brought us so much closer together, i do get lonely at times as im often on my own but then it makes up for it when he comes home x x

Status: Offline

Jun 26th, 2009, 07:02 AM	#8
Loveit Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2008 Posts: 230	Yes I love it! Cant imagine not waking up next to him now No would never ever move back. I like the space and the quiet in the day and i love living as a family. Nope lol i did when i was preg sometimes while OH was at work but now Evies here so i just play with her and get housework done or come on here while shes asleep. Yeah its made it so much better, we just feel closer and more secure.

Status: Offline

Jun 26th, 2009, 07:07 AM	#9
Tezzy Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: North Wales Posts: 11,131	im not a teen now but i was when i had Rhys, me and OH bought our house when i was 19 and he was 20 Do you like it? yes i love being able to raise my children how i want to without any pressure from mine/OHs parents. would you ever move back in with parents/relatives? no, never, i think of that as a major step back in life, plus mine/OHs parents are really over-bearing and i wouldnt like my kids to turn out like my bro/OHs sisters... Do you ever get lonely? not really, i like my alone time and if i do get lonely i can always go visit family Do you think its made your relationship better/worse? its certainly put a strain on our relationship, bills to pay etc can sometimes cause rows but i think we understand eachother better and i couldnt imagine ever not living with my OH

Status: Offline

Jun 26th, 2009, 07:32 AM	#10
amie-leigh Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: Fife Posts: 9,213	OH moved in with me when i'd just turned 17 and he was just about to turn 18 because i wasnt allowed to stay with my grandparents as they were legally over crowed so council sorted me out my own little flat and then his mother (ahhh that woman) decided she wanted his bedroom so it was £300 month rent (her house was only £250 month) or move out so he moved in love it we have lived together 2 and a bit years now, wont lie it was hard at beginning having to agree between us rather than just decide myself i would have liked to stay with my grandparents but they arent far away so still see them often i sometimes get lonley if OH is at work but i have friends and my grandparents near by so i can go visit them or they come visit me its made our relationship better in general but has been hard with bills and rent to pay but i always stand by what doesnt kill u makes u stronger

Status: Offline

Similar Threads
Any one living with or have in laws living with u?	Trying To Conceive
A question of money for those living with their OH	Baby Club
Any teens live alone?	Teen Pregnancy

User Name		Remember Me?
Password