i'm so scared

XsarahGrace · Jun 13th, 2009, 15:34 PM

of having my baby taken away,
due to my stupid F***ing ex and what his put me threw i've been really down,
and classed as being depressed but to top it off he got his new girlfriend to text me,
and now i'm in such a state that my mums going crazy and the midwife wants me in hopsital now, because its not right to be like this and i need help
and i don't want help i just want him and things to be okay.

i feel sick and achey and lonely i don't know what to doo

danniemum2be · Jun 13th, 2009, 15:41 PM

awwwww hunni, it'll be ok, you just gotta look out for the lil one and your baby wont get taken off u if they see what a gud mum u are, they prefer to keep the baby with the mu anyway, and if u need to talk to any1 just talk to me x x x x

Akira · Jun 13th, 2009, 21:21 PM

awww hun as said ^ they prefer to keep the baby with the mum, so I doubt they will take your baby off you for depression, look at all the single mums that have PND and they don't loose their babies. Go for a walk, bath, anything that usually calms you down, stressing is not going to help you or baby. Most of all, ignore the a**hole and look after yourself and your little one. Sounds like you have support with your mum and midwife so just let them help

tasha41 · Jun 14th, 2009, 00:47 AM

Honestly tons of mums have depression honey and keep their babies! You just need a clean break from this ex, no more texts from him or his girlfriend.. can you chance your cell #?? Maybe block him on MSN/Facebook or what have you. If you need to be in touch with him for the baby or if he needs to be in touch with you for the baby, he can put the effort into an email or coming to your house.

New2Bumps · Jun 14th, 2009, 06:10 AM

I agree with the ppl above... if they are recommending you go into hopspital then go then they will see that you are following their advice and listening and you will get a rest x xx

shaunanicole · Jun 15th, 2009, 10:19 AM

Stay strong babe, you have everything you need, and that is bubz. No one can take YOUR child away without reason to believe you are a threat to the baby. Don't let your ex make you believe he has any authority over you and bubz because he doesn't.

kristy87 · Jun 15th, 2009, 12:32 PM

dont worry about the baby getting taken away hun, they will do almost anything to keep babies with their mothers, and as long as they can see you will care for the baby and it will be in a safe plac,e which it will be, there will be no concerns x

aidensxmomma · Jun 15th, 2009, 19:22 PM

Try not to worry, hun. I was diagnosed with clinical depression and bi-polar disorder a couple years before I conceived my son. It's been in all my medical records ever since and no one has dared to use either thing against me to try to take my son away. I even found out I was pregnant because I was sent to the hospital because my mom thought I was trying to commit suicide. It's scary stuff, but we (me, my mom, my OH, etc.) have all worked through it and it's never been a concern since the day I went to the hospital.

Maybe you should go to the hospital, that way you can get away from everything, think about it all without a ton of intervention, and rest! If you ever wanna chat, PM me.

Jun 13th, 2009, 15:34 PM	#1
XsarahGrace Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: Southend-on-Sea. Posts: 1,019	i'm so scared of having my baby taken away, due to my stupid F***ing ex and what his put me threw i've been really down, and classed as being depressed but to top it off he got his new girlfriend to text me, and now i'm in such a state that my mums going crazy and the midwife wants me in hopsital now, because its not right to be like this and i need help and i don't want help i just want him and things to be okay. i feel sick and achey and lonely i don't know what to doo

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Jun 13th, 2009, 15:41 PM	#2
danniemum2be Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jun 2009 Posts: 4,517	awwwww hunni, it'll be ok, you just gotta look out for the lil one and your baby wont get taken off u if they see what a gud mum u are, they prefer to keep the baby with the mu anyway, and if u need to talk to any1 just talk to me x x x x

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Jun 13th, 2009, 21:21 PM	#3
Akira Mum (Mom) Inactive Join Date: May 2009 Location: New Zealand Posts: 709	awww hun as said ^ they prefer to keep the baby with the mum, so I doubt they will take your baby off you for depression, look at all the single mums that have PND and they don't loose their babies. Go for a walk, bath, anything that usually calms you down, stressing is not going to help you or baby. Most of all, ignore the a**hole and look after yourself and your little one. Sounds like you have support with your mum and midwife so just let them help

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Jun 14th, 2009, 00:47 AM	#4
tasha41 Mum (Mom) BnB Spammer Elite Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: Hamilton, Canada Posts: 23,921	Honestly tons of mums have depression honey and keep their babies! You just need a clean break from this ex, no more texts from him or his girlfriend.. can you chance your cell #?? Maybe block him on MSN/Facebook or what have you. If you need to be in touch with him for the baby or if he needs to be in touch with you for the baby, he can put the effort into an email or coming to your house.

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Jun 14th, 2009, 06:10 AM	#5
New2Bumps Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: May 2009 Location: England Posts: 3,839	I agree with the ppl above... if they are recommending you go into hopspital then go then they will see that you are following their advice and listening and you will get a rest x xx

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Jun 15th, 2009, 10:19 AM	#6
shaunanicole Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: Deltona, Florida Posts: 3,152	Stay strong babe, you have everything you need, and that is bubz. No one can take YOUR child away without reason to believe you are a threat to the baby. Don't let your ex make you believe he has any authority over you and bubz because he doesn't.

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Jun 15th, 2009, 12:32 PM	#7
kristy87 Other Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: scotland Posts: 2,340	dont worry about the baby getting taken away hun, they will do almost anything to keep babies with their mothers, and as long as they can see you will care for the baby and it will be in a safe plac,e which it will be, there will be no concerns x

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Jun 15th, 2009, 19:22 PM	#8
aidensxmomma Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: May 2008 Location: Wisconsin, U.S. Posts: 2,874	Try not to worry, hun. I was diagnosed with clinical depression and bi-polar disorder a couple years before I conceived my son. It's been in all my medical records ever since and no one has dared to use either thing against me to try to take my son away. I even found out I was pregnant because I was sent to the hospital because my mom thought I was trying to commit suicide. It's scary stuff, but we (me, my mom, my OH, etc.) have all worked through it and it's never been a concern since the day I went to the hospital. Maybe you should go to the hospital, that way you can get away from everything, think about it all without a ton of intervention, and rest! If you ever wanna chat, PM me.

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