quite gutted really :|

cheeky92x · May 7th, 2009, 10:08 AM

Ok, so I've just taken a test and it came back

. and i dont know why but all of a sudden I just feel really gutted that it hasnt come back positive! It's like all of a sudden I wish I was preg, im only 17 but i really want one with my bf and am considering going off the pill. argg what should I do?

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XxkayleighxX · May 7th, 2009, 11:13 AM

hey hun u probs just worked urself u 2 a BFP and as 4 cummin off the pill at the end of the day its up 2 u? how long u bin wiv ur bf 4? i fink at 17 u sud live a little be a 17yr old 4 abit, i got a mortgage at 18 and i luv wot i have but sumtimes i wish i waited and acted my age 4 abit, do u n ur bf live 2gether?? if not y dont u try doin that 1st, its up 2 u at the end of the day hun but i fort i wud just let u no wot i fink

tasha41 · May 7th, 2009, 12:12 PM

Honestly I don't think you should go off the pill. At least give yourself time to REALLY think about it if you think you wanna do that.. you might just feel that way now because you were really expecting a

and so convinced you were pregnant that you feel sort of cheated out of your baby right now.. it's natural to be upset when you get a

even if you weren't trying for a baby if you were sure you were pregnant and had accepted it etc rather than feeling "relief", no matter what your age is

kaz982 · May 7th, 2009, 21:23 PM

thats how i feel preg hun thought i was wasnt and didnt follow up on the pill. am also 17 BIG mistake thought my bf would actually have liked me being preg considering hed wanted to get me up duff once before, but that all changed hes told me he doesnt care about the child. nice huh!!

MummyMummy · May 8th, 2009, 10:13 AM

def wait and let yourself get over the shock of expecting a pos result, then getting a neg result. it's alot to take in, a lot to think about and go over. talk to your bf properly, go through finances before thinking of ababy too.

you are so young, you have your whole life in front of you - as much as nobody likes to admit it babys do change your life, they do make life harder, you that includes your well being and career end up getting put on the back burner.

i was preg at 16 and i really wouldn't recomend it to any young girl what so ever.

xXx

May 7th, 2009, 10:08 AM	#1
cheeky92x Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: UK Posts: 55	quite gutted really :\| Ok, so I've just taken a test and it came back . and i dont know why but all of a sudden I just feel really gutted that it hasnt come back positive! It's like all of a sudden I wish I was preg, im only 17 but i really want one with my bf and am considering going off the pill. argg what should I do? x

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May 7th, 2009, 11:13 AM	#2
XxkayleighxX Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: cheshire Posts: 119	hey hun u probs just worked urself u 2 a BFP and as 4 cummin off the pill at the end of the day its up 2 u? how long u bin wiv ur bf 4? i fink at 17 u sud live a little be a 17yr old 4 abit, i got a mortgage at 18 and i luv wot i have but sumtimes i wish i waited and acted my age 4 abit, do u n ur bf live 2gether?? if not y dont u try doin that 1st, its up 2 u at the end of the day hun but i fort i wud just let u no wot i fink

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May 7th, 2009, 12:12 PM	#3
tasha41 Mum (Mom) BnB Spammer Elite Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: Hamilton, Canada Posts: 23,921	Honestly I don't think you should go off the pill. At least give yourself time to REALLY think about it if you think you wanna do that.. you might just feel that way now because you were really expecting a and so convinced you were pregnant that you feel sort of cheated out of your baby right now.. it's natural to be upset when you get a even if you weren't trying for a baby if you were sure you were pregnant and had accepted it etc rather than feeling "relief", no matter what your age is

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May 7th, 2009, 21:23 PM	#4
kaz982 Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2009 Posts: 239	thats how i feel preg hun thought i was wasnt and didnt follow up on the pill. am also 17 BIG mistake thought my bf would actually have liked me being preg considering hed wanted to get me up duff once before, but that all changed hes told me he doesnt care about the child. nice huh!!

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May 8th, 2009, 10:13 AM	#5
MummyMummy Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2009 Posts: 799	def wait and let yourself get over the shock of expecting a pos result, then getting a neg result. it's alot to take in, a lot to think about and go over. talk to your bf properly, go through finances before thinking of ababy too. you are so young, you have your whole life in front of you - as much as nobody likes to admit it babys do change your life, they do make life harder, you that includes your well being and career end up getting put on the back burner. i was preg at 16 and i really wouldn't recomend it to any young girl what so ever. xXx

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