Feeling guilty - Page 2

teen mummy · May 1st, 2009, 07:43 AM

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Originally Posted by Megz143

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Originally Posted by teen mummy

hey look ther is no need to feel guitly about this, i often think this and i was exactly like you i was on drugs an drinkin etc. that part of me i am glad to get rid of but all my friends have left appart from 2 who have always been ther for me. once your lil baby is born you wont care about that anymore cause you can just look at your baby and see them smile back at you. look at my sig it ses it all lol
xxxx

I Do Have To Say Your Pic Does Say It All..What A Little Gem! x

thanks very much and good luck for the pregnancy and birth

xxxx

MummyMummy · May 1st, 2009, 10:53 AM

3 years later and i'm 35weeks preg tomorow

and i still get times when i feel like that, when i feel i've missed out.

it's hard, really hard giving up your life- reguardless of what people say to you you ARE giving up your life and body. for forever. when people say 'it's enriched my life having a baby' i think wtf?! are you crazy?! if i could have waited to have my 1st iwould have... gods honest truth.

it's just a case of 'getting over' it and finding new things to replace the things you miss. i really missed drinking and smoking (so bad for you i know,but i liked it... i wasn't addicted i actually likedthe taste) and as time went on (as in well over a year of my son being born) it wasn't such an issue as i had literally forgot what the big deal was, things like mney also play a big part in the 'getting over' things

as far as friends go, what fun are you when you'repushing apram around? my friends justdwindled away too! but there is places like this to meet friends, aswell as mum and tot groups.

don't feel bad, it's normal to miss what you know/are used to/enjoy, but trust me in time you will get over it and not just because you have a gorgeous baby (that meant nothing tome) just that YOU will accept it in time and get used to how life is.

xXx

AtomicPink · May 1st, 2009, 13:59 PM

I'm not a teen, but I feel the same way. And I don't know why? I find myself in tears sometimes for feeling so guilty. We TTC for a year and suffered 2 miscarriages before getting where we are today.

I'm not the type to go clubbing. I gave that up a long time ago.
I used to go to the local pub. And thats it. me and OH spend a lot of time together when we can, and my friends live further away from me than they did when I was younger.

My heart breaks because sometimes I think i dont deserve my LO if I feel this way. My friend has just had an ectopic and I should be more flipping grateful. but then OH said last night he was nervous too, but couldnt wait for the LO to be here.

Then i realised. Its plainly down to nerves.

May 1st, 2009, 10:53 AM	#12
MummyMummy Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2009 Posts: 799	3 years later and i'm 35weeks preg tomorow and i still get times when i feel like that, when i feel i've missed out. it's hard, really hard giving up your life- reguardless of what people say to you you ARE giving up your life and body. for forever. when people say 'it's enriched my life having a baby' i think wtf?! are you crazy?! if i could have waited to have my 1st iwould have... gods honest truth. it's just a case of 'getting over' it and finding new things to replace the things you miss. i really missed drinking and smoking (so bad for you i know,but i liked it... i wasn't addicted i actually likedthe taste) and as time went on (as in well over a year of my son being born) it wasn't such an issue as i had literally forgot what the big deal was, things like mney also play a big part in the 'getting over' things as far as friends go, what fun are you when you'repushing apram around? my friends justdwindled away too! but there is places like this to meet friends, aswell as mum and tot groups. don't feel bad, it's normal to miss what you know/are used to/enjoy, but trust me in time you will get over it and not just because you have a gorgeous baby (that meant nothing tome) just that YOU will accept it in time and get used to how life is. xXx

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May 1st, 2009, 13:59 PM	#13
AtomicPink Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Scotland Posts: 19,122	I'm not a teen, but I feel the same way. And I don't know why? I find myself in tears sometimes for feeling so guilty. We TTC for a year and suffered 2 miscarriages before getting where we are today. I'm not the type to go clubbing. I gave that up a long time ago. I used to go to the local pub. And thats it. me and OH spend a lot of time together when we can, and my friends live further away from me than they did when I was younger. My heart breaks because sometimes I think i dont deserve my LO if I feel this way. My friend has just had an ectopic and I should be more flipping grateful. but then OH said last night he was nervous too, but couldnt wait for the LO to be here. Then i realised. Its plainly down to nerves.

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