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Old Dec 24th, 2009, 17:36 PM  
Nosy_Cow
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Angry

:( Might as well cancel Christmas now! What's the point?




I'm so annoyed right now! All I seem to do is cry and cry

My OH's ex has decided that we can't see his little girl It's going to be bad enough with it being Chloe's first Christmas but without seeing his little girl!

I know probably most of you won't be on at this time with it being Christmas Eve and all but I just need to vent my frustrations!

It all started when he text his ex this morning saying I'll be picking Ellie up at 6pm because he's working! Well she's now said she wants her back by 8! That's 2 hours! And really only an hour because it's a half hour trip each way! So he stood up to his ex (first time EVER!) and said he'll pick her up at 8 but he'll drop her off when he's ready - fair enough - it's not like she's gotta be up in the morning! But no now she's said we can't see her at all because she wants her back on time!

This is the only time we'll see her till 2nd Jan

I just want him to see his little girl! His lost one this year and now he's not able to the other at Christmas!

Sorry girls I just needed to let off some steam more than anything! I've cried constantly for the past hour it's just not fair!
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Old Dec 24th, 2009, 17:40 PM  
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Thats not very fair two hours at christmas. I am so sorry, it is not fair at all
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Old Dec 24th, 2009, 18:00 PM  
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oh hun thats really not on at all, what a nasty cow, does she not think how upsetting it will be for you both. xxx
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Old Dec 24th, 2009, 18:02 PM  
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What a bloody awful thing to do.

I hope the time you have is fun.

V xxx
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Old Dec 24th, 2009, 18:04 PM  
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i am sorry hunny, i understand that must be hard for you both. i dont think alot of my ex, infact i hate him...but i would never stop him seeing his children on christmas and no matter what i think of him if he was going through the same as you are i would be trying to make things as easy on you both as possible. xxxx
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Old Dec 24th, 2009, 18:07 PM  
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She doesn't understand (his ex)! 3 days after I had given birth to Chloe she told me she hadn't ever taken folic acid talk about a kick in the teeth! She also doesn't know the father of her youngest. Oh and BTW she also made my OH look after her youngest on the same day! He was so upset afterwards!

She's one of the people who think you should be "over it" by now!

Raa! I'm ranting again - sorry!
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Old Dec 24th, 2009, 18:12 PM  
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Oh and another (before I write it on FB) I'm fed up of reading people's status that say "Can't wait to see my girl's faces in the morning!" "Can't wait for my little boy to see his presents!"
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Old Dec 24th, 2009, 18:18 PM  
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Im so sorry hun thats so not fair xx
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Old Dec 24th, 2009, 18:23 PM  
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i really hate it when people do this to their ex's when the ex has done nothing wrong. he should of been able to see his child for a decent amount of time and she shouldnt just be making arrangements without consultaing him, after all he did make their little girl it wasnt just her on her own. im so sorry hun, i just dont understand women who act like this.
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Old Dec 24th, 2009, 18:25 PM  
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Thats not fair at all
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