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Old Nov 27th, 2009, 16:32 PM   #1
lisa_33
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feel so sad


hi girls.
just back from cemetery visiting maisie,got such a shock to see another plot beside her in the baby garden. all the boards were over it so im sure the funeral will be tomorrow or monday. so sad to see another little angel there, i t makes it so much harder when you know what the family will be feeling i took some of maisies things away to leave plenty of room if there are alot of flowers after the funeral. thats the 7th little baby in the garden.
why is this world so cruel xxx
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Old Nov 27th, 2009, 16:34 PM   #2
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That is so kind of you to make some room for all the other angels flowers. You must be a very special person
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Old Nov 27th, 2009, 16:42 PM   #3
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Heya hun just wanted to send you a *hug* and like faun said how kind of you to make room for the other little angel xxx
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Old Nov 27th, 2009, 16:55 PM   #4
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aww bless you

so so sad
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Old Nov 27th, 2009, 17:23 PM   #5
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aww thanks girls, i just wish no one else had to feel like this. its heartbreaking everytime someone new joins on here, and thats the first new little one at the cemetery sinse maisie has been there. its just so sad knowing others are going through this horrible torture. i still can't belive we had our daughters funeral! its so wrong. i told maisie to make her new little angel friend welcome xxx
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Old Nov 27th, 2009, 21:23 PM   #6
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Oh hun.... . You know i know how you are feeling as i went through this myself not so long ago. Seeing another baby's grave brings back so many feelings and memories.
I wish there was something i could say that might help, but.... as you know... there isn't.
At least that poor baby will have the best plot in that cemetary ever - right next to your perfect little Maisie xxx
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Old Nov 27th, 2009, 23:04 PM   #7
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thank you hunny, thats such a lovely lovely thing to say xx when i seen it i was thinking back to you, and how you felt even that seems so long ago, but yesterday at the same time xxx
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Old Nov 28th, 2009, 02:19 AM   #8
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It sucks doesn't it that so many lovely ladies have to go through this awful pain. Sending you lots of
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Old Nov 28th, 2009, 16:45 PM   #9
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its just so wrong and like you say you know how painful this will be for the family too. i wish this would stop happening xxx
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Old Nov 28th, 2009, 17:53 PM   #10
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So sad Alex is still the last baby so I'm not completely sure how it feels but I know it must be hard. Almost like greiving for your daughter as well as the loss of another baby at the same time. You sound like a lovely lady, I hope you see the mummy of the other baby cause she will be so lucky to have you to talk to xxx
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