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Nov 26th, 2009, 12:28 PM
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#1 | | Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member
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| Just had phonecall from midwife
The hospital didnt ring her to let her know what had happened, she was ringing to check I could attend my appointment tomorrow  . I just feel like i have been punched in the chest, keep crying again now. I wish so much that I was going tomorrow.  | | | | Status: Offline
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Nov 26th, 2009, 12:29 PM
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Nov 26th, 2009, 12:35 PM
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#3 | | Mummy BnB Addict
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| Im so sorry babe...  xxx | | | | Status: Offline
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Nov 26th, 2009, 14:03 PM
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#4 | | Trying to conceive (TTC) Chat Happy BnB Member
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| i am sorry hunny, i thought they would automaticly contact her so she could come out and check on you xxx | | | | Status: Offline
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Nov 26th, 2009, 14:49 PM
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#5 | | Missing her Angel Chloe Active BnB Member
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| That's horrible honey! I know my midwife was on holiday when I lost Chloe but the other midwife called me everyday up until the funeral to check I was ok because I said I didn't want someone out to visit. The only problem was she kept phoning my OH's phone and he didn't answer it so she kept leaving messages. I rang them to ask a question and she was so glad to hear from me because I hadn't been returning her calls!
The hospital really should have let her know! | | | | Status: Offline
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Nov 26th, 2009, 15:42 PM
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#6 | | Angel Kristian & 2nd Tri Chat Happy BnB Member
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| really sorry she should have been notified my MW came to see me in hospital | | | | Status: Online
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Nov 26th, 2009, 16:07 PM
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#7 | | Mummy to Angel Baby + WTT Active BnB Member
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| That's terrible, I cant believe the hospital didn't let them know. I've had the midwife round a few times since and they let my doctor know too. How awful for you, big hugs xxx | | | | Status: Offline
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Nov 26th, 2009, 16:37 PM
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#8 | | Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member
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| That's awful, i'm so sorry xxx | | | | Status: Online
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Nov 26th, 2009, 17:44 PM
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#9 | | Mummy to an Angel x BnB Addict
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| omg I am so sorry you had that call its awful they didnt let her know. Big xxx | | | | Status: Online
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Nov 26th, 2009, 18:11 PM
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Originally Posted by babyell  The hospital didnt ring her to let her know what had happened, she was ringing to check I could attend my appointment tomorrow . I just feel like i have been punched in the chest, keep crying again now. I wish so much that I was going tomorrow. | Aww Hun,hope your ok ,silly question ...bloody hospitals
Sounds like my hospital ,I have had similar calls and letters asking why I havent attended . It really does hurt and I feel that communication between my hospital at St Marys and My GP/Midwife has been so poor under the circumstances. I really do feel for you hun | | | | Status: Offline
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