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Nov 25th, 2009, 20:03 PM
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#1 | | Angel Kristian & 2nd Tri Chat Happy BnB Member
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| Postmortem Results tomorrow what questions to ask??
my mind has gone blank and dont have a clue what to ask | | | | Status: Offline
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Nov 25th, 2009, 20:09 PM
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#2 | | Mummy to Angel Baby + WTT Active BnB Member
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| Hope all goes well for you, will be thinking of you xxx | | | | Status: Offline
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Nov 25th, 2009, 20:21 PM
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#3 | | Trying to conceive (TTC) Chat Happy BnB Member
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| i didnt have one carried out hunny, so i really dont know.
i really hope it goes okay for you, i can imagine how hard it must be xxx | | | | Status: Offline
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Nov 25th, 2009, 20:38 PM
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#4 | | I don't know Active BnB Member
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| Hope it goes ok hun, i'll be thinking of you. I know how horrible it is. All i can say is dont worry about questions now, all you can do is listen to what they have to say. If you think of questions after you've gone (as i did, once i'd digested it all) you can still ring them or go in and see them. My advice would be to make sure you get a phone number / contact details for who you can call with questions before you leave tomorrow, just in case you need it.  | | | | Status: Offline
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Nov 26th, 2009, 16:14 PM
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#5 | | Angel Kristian & 2nd Tri Chat Happy BnB Member
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| well he was perfect no defects the only things is he had mecomin in his lungs which is associated with stress which upset me
the consultant i saw the day before he died didnt write down the fact i told him several times of the lack of movement, so i now have to make a complaint through PALS
seeing the consultant again at 12 weeks to discuss plan of action, but said he wanted to leave me until 40 weeks and told him i dont want to go that far as thats when he died, is he stupid ?? anyway he said we will discuss after 12 week scan and i will see him and no one else but him until the end, they will scan at 28 weeks then at 32 weeks and 36 weeks too and will be seeing them a lot more but i just hope and pray that this little one gets here | | | | Status: Offline
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Nov 26th, 2009, 16:57 PM
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#6 | | Trying to conceive (TTC) Chat Happy BnB Member
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| hope your okay jess. i am not surprised the fact that you questioned lack of movement hasnt been written down! i hope pals can help you.
i would have thought they would deliver as soon as possibly safe, be assertive with them, at any time your not happy voive your feelings strongly (im sure you will anyway). at least as long as itsthe same consultant you see you have time to build a realationship with him, and hopefully he will understand that it would benifit your state of mind getting induced maybe at 38 weeks.
my mw was in the other day and she said they probably wont consider sectioning me (IF i ever get a bfp) untill 39 weeks if everythings okay. i was pretty upset about this....i would prefer to take the risk at 36 or 37 weeks because its smaller thatn the 10% risk of abruption xxxx | | | | Status: Offline
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