TTC After Loss Thread

hi ladies,
i wondered if we should start a new ttc thread as the other one hasnt been used in a while?
anyway im at the obsessing in the tww part!! im 7 dpo just now and not sure if i am more worried about bfp than a bfn!! i started to chart this cycle on ff but finding temping really difficult as i have very irregular sleeping and waking patterns just now so could only do my best.
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What a good idea lisa_33 i am currently on cd3 this is my second normal cycle since having Erin heres hoping this is the one i know what you mean about the being more worried about getting a BFP than a BFN i am terrified x

i still want to give you my support about charting and opk's so if you need any help let me know x goodluck to you all x x

dizzynic_ this seems to be my second normal cycle to, im trying to be hopeful. i am so crampy and i know i am imagining symtoms.xx
jess_thanks hunny, hopefully we can join you all soon! hope your feeling okay xx
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am ok, hope your ok x

i was crying the month i caught was convinced i wasnt pregnant

I'll join you in here too!
I am cd 5 today. My cyles are all screwed up tho... had my first AF 19 days after post natal bleed finished, then had my second AF 21 days after that, then this last AF was 41 days! So i have no idea whats going on! Haven't been charting or using OPKs as i did all that when we were TTC before and it made the whole thing a bit too stressful. I came to realise towards the end that as long as you have regular bd-ing throughout the cycle, no amount of poas or temps will make much difference!
Anyway, am expecting this to be yet another long haul as it took us so long to conceive my daughter. So i guess my main worry is slightly different in that i dont worry too much about getting a BFP, i worry more about how long this will ever take and if eventually we will have to go for fertility treatment (as we were just about to start treatment when i get pg before).
Anyhoo.... good luck everyone! Lisa, i so hope this is it for you! Cramps are GOOD! xx

coffee this is my first time attempting charting and i am getting stressed over it already!! i do agree with you though if your having regular bd-ing thats the most imprtant thing. the reason i decided to start was because of craig being away so much, i was convinced that he would miss ov, but fingers crossed looking at ff i ov on the tuesday and he left on wed night, so we went for it twice a day for a few days till he left! that way if we have faild at least we know we did what we could. have to say it was a bit of relief when he left though!! at least you know you can get pregnant now, and hopefully because you have it could be alot quicker this time xxx

Hi hope you ladies dont mind me jumping on this thread.....I have finally stopped bleeding today, just very little brown spotting. If it stays this way (fingers crossed) I have decided to use ov tests daily and if we get a positive to have , and if not then wait to let my body heal in the mean time. Just so looking forward to being able to TTC, counting days etc will take my mind off losing Harry and give me something to aim for. Even though it has been just over two weeks, the overwhelming deire to be pregnant is constantly in my mind every minute, every day. I know I will never replace Harry, but getting pregnant again will give us both some purpose, and hope for our future. Just hope my 'bits' are up to accomodating another baby. Just paranoid now that it will never happen . to everyone of you ladies x

babyell you very welcome to join us hun, were all in this to help and support each other as much as we can. i can remember feeling exactly as you do now, how the only thing that you can think of other than your loss is the desperation to fall pregnant again. i am glad though now that i didnt fall straight away as i had an emergancy section so i know i need that bit longer to heal and have realised through the other angel mummies who have fell pregnant that it will bring on different feelings so i am a bit more prepared for the difficluties that i will face when i do get that bfp.
hopefully we can all help each other along the way and not have to wait to long for our bfps!! xxx

have any of you been offered a swine flu jab? i got a letter from my gp offering me one, i think because she knows i am ttc but i dont really know if something i want to risk having. i thought id wait and see what happens in the tww because i dont think i would lik one just now as if i did get pregnant it would be so early xxx