hayley x

As some of you know I am getting married tomorrow to Alex's daddy I know if Alex was here he would be our little page boy, up until now I've been ok but now its hit me that he really wont be here for our wedding

We have a baby blue theme as a way of involving him, getting married in the same church as his funeral, and today we went and got him a flower arrangement made up to put on his grave, but I know thats not enough what can I do for him to know we miss him terribly and wish he could be sharing our special day? Oh we are also going to let go a balloon for him.



xxx

poppysgirl3

i would have his picture framed up with you guys at the alter when you get married...

bunnyg82

Oh darling, it sounds like you are doing loads for him. He will be so proud of his mummy and daddy and so pleased you are involving him. It sounds like you have thought of everything so please don't be hard on yourself. Enjoy your special day knowing that your little boy is watching over you. You always do such amazing things to remember him and seriously it really sounds like you are involving him perfectly xx

Bunnipowder

I think what you are already doing is perfect!!
Maybe you can put a little pageboy teddy or ornament on his grave after as a little thankyou because he will be there with you and rich.
Maybe mentioning him in the speeches and everyone raising a glass for him.

Lots of luck hope all goes well xxxxxx

Emma.Gi

I hope you don't mind me butting in here

I was having a look at these the other day and saw your post and thought it would be a nice touch

http://www.boutiquetoyou.co.uk/perso...oy-p-3027.html

Hope I don't offend xx

lisa_33

sweetie you involve little alex in everything you do, and what you have planned sounds perfect. every big thing that happens in your life is always going to have that little bit of sadness there, but your little boy will be with his mummy and daddy proud to be part of them especailly on your wedding day. i hope you have a wonderfull day hunny xxx

Jemma_x

What your doing sounds lovely hun, alex would be so proud of his mummy and daddy and i know he'll be with you all day. If you want to do something else aswell what about like someone else said having his picture at the altar and maybe at the beginning have a poem read out for him and maybe a minutes silence in memory of alex. I dont know if any of these ideas are any good but i thought i put them anyway.

I hope you have a wonderful day tomorrow hun x

shampain

I think the suggestions people have made are brilliant, Alex will be looking down and smiling at his mummy and daddy and little sister...xxxx

Coffee

It sounds to me like you are doing lots of wonderful things and sounds perfect. As Lisa said, your little boy will always be with you. He'll be living in your hearts and in your thoughts.
Have a fantastic day tomorrow and remember its about you and your DH tomorrow, so try and be easier on yourself and enjoy it! Hope you have a fantastic day hun xx

DonnaDoodles

Sounds perfect to me Hayley. I know its not the way you want it or should be, but im sure he will be walking beside you down the isle. I bet your really excited aswell as sad babe. I like the idea of the photo of him....x x x

p.s get lots of pics x