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Nov 15th, 2009, 13:42 PM
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#1 | | Mum to 1 angel & 1 on way Active BnB Member
Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: Norwich, UK
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| why do they decline?
I set up an event on FB for my little girls first birthday. i specifically put on there that people didnt have to attend anything i just asked that they either lit a candle for lexi or just merely thought about her. not asking for much
i dont understand why people have declined? i havent asked for money or for them to travel somewhere i just asked them to think about my daughter. its really upset me. one of the guys who declined has 2 young children who from his page are his world and i just think its cold hearted.
i only wanted people to remember my princess on her birthday  | | | | Status: Online
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Nov 15th, 2009, 14:05 PM
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#2 | | Just me and Brady Active BnB Member
Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: Kent, UK
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| I delete all invitations on FB without even looking at them because I get so many and I dont go on there that often, I just want to get rid of all of them, maybe some of your friends do this too? | | | | Status: Offline
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Nov 15th, 2009, 14:07 PM
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#3 | | Mum to 1 angel & 1 on way Active BnB Member
Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: Norwich, UK
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Originally Posted by dom85  I delete all invitations on FB without even looking at them because I get so many and I dont go on there that often, I just want to get rid of all of them, maybe some of your friends do this too? | im really hoping that is all it is. i just hate to think that people dont care about a poor child dying. i just want people to think about my little girl because she means to world to me
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Nov 15th, 2009, 14:19 PM
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#4 | | & Tom BnB Addict
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| When's her birthday sweetie? Will light a candle  | | | | Status: Offline
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Nov 15th, 2009, 14:25 PM
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#5 | | Mum to 1 angel & 1 on way Active BnB Member
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Originally Posted by GemLou When's her birthday sweetie? Will light a candle | her birthday is the 23rd december. thank you so much | | | | Status: Online
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Nov 15th, 2009, 14:30 PM
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#6 | | 3rd trimester! Active BnB Member
Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: Newcastle
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| so sorry for you loss huni,, i to will light a candle for you little princess!! xx | | | | Status: Offline
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Nov 15th, 2009, 14:38 PM
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#7 | | Mom to angel Devin & pg Chat Happy BnB Member
Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: Canada
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| I will light a candle for your sweet angel.
Oh and I think it might be what someone else has suggested sometimes I delete all invites and offers on fb because there are so many of them. | | | | Status: Offline
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Nov 15th, 2009, 16:18 PM
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#8 | | Mum (Mom) BnB Elite
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| I will light a candle for Lexi xx | | | | Status: Online
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Nov 15th, 2009, 16:23 PM
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#9 | | Waiting To Try (WTT)
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| I'm in WTT - hope you don't mind me popping in, but I'll make sure I light a candle for your daughter too xx | | | | Status: Offline
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Nov 15th, 2009, 17:02 PM
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#10 | | Mum (Mom)
Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: Croydon/London
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| ill light a candle for Lexi (:
i lost a daughter when i was very very young and i dont want to say i "understand how you feel" because nobody ever will, but i understand how much it hurts that people just forget like they never existed 
my thoughts are with you and your family
lots of love, Kerry x | | | | Status: Offline
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