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Nov 13th, 2009, 11:22 AM
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#1 | | Pregnant (Expecting) BnB Addict
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| Struggling with friday the 13th,not a day of happy memories. Im struggling with today. Its not a day filled with happy memories for me. Its the day i went into labour with Bodhi and the same day he died.He would be 8 months old today.  Not sure how to cope with today. I miss him so much. Sorry for the moan girls. I just cant believe how fast time has gone,but for me it still feels like yesterday.  | | | | Status: Offline
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Nov 13th, 2009, 11:52 AM
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#2 | | Pg after 3 losses due Oct Chat Happy BnB Member
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| awww  sweetie i cant believe its been 8 months either for you. it will be 7 months for me on the 21st time just goes too quickly in a fog of grieve and sadness.
i have no words to comfort you today sweetie i am in a crappy place myself today but you know where i am if you need to talk
bodhi will be so so proud of his mummy for coping so well and i bet he cant wait to be a big brother and will always watch over the new baby in your tummy. x | | | | Status: Offline
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Nov 13th, 2009, 14:58 PM
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#3 | | Missing her Angel Chloe Active BnB Member
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|  don't know what else to say sweetheart! Except there is no need to apoligise for moaning! | | | | Status: Online
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Nov 13th, 2009, 16:51 PM
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#4 | | Mam to 4 girls ttc no 5 Active BnB Member
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| Never apologise for moaning you are more than entitled to sending you strength to get through today xxx | | | | Status: Offline
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Nov 13th, 2009, 18:25 PM
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#5 | | & my sweet angel Kaden x Chat Happy BnB Member
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Nov 13th, 2009, 21:04 PM
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#6 | | Mummy to an Angel x BnB Addict
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| I'm so sorry your having a tough day  the time has gone so fast yet it feels like yesterday I was reading your devestating post  Sending you lots of  thinking of you xxx | | | | Status: Offline
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Nov 14th, 2009, 00:16 AM
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#7 | | Mummy to an angel. Chat Happy BnB Member
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| I wish I could say something to make things better but I know there are no words.  | | | | Status: Offline
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Nov 26th, 2009, 05:06 AM
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#8 | | Waiting To Try (WTT) Active BnB Member
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| natasja 32, I am am sorry for your loss. Friday November 13th, 2009 will always be a day of unhappiness for me also, because I lost my precious Kennedy at 21 weeks pregnant on this day. I know that Bodhi is close in your heart, and I know that he will always be there, just as my Kennedy is close in mine. You are not alone, and my prayers are with you. May your Precious Bodhi Rest In Peace. | | | | Status: Offline
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