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Old Nov 13th, 2009, 11:22 AM   #1
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Struggling with friday the 13th,not a day of happy memories.


Im struggling with today. Its not a day filled with happy memories for me. Its the day i went into labour with Bodhi and the same day he died.He would be 8 months old today. Not sure how to cope with today. I miss him so much. Sorry for the moan girls. I just cant believe how fast time has gone,but for me it still feels like yesterday.
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Old Nov 13th, 2009, 11:52 AM   #2
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awww sweetie i cant believe its been 8 months either for you. it will be 7 months for me on the 21st time just goes too quickly in a fog of grieve and sadness.

i have no words to comfort you today sweetie i am in a crappy place myself today but you know where i am if you need to talk

bodhi will be so so proud of his mummy for coping so well and i bet he cant wait to be a big brother and will always watch over the new baby in your tummy. x
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Old Nov 13th, 2009, 14:58 PM   #3
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don't know what else to say sweetheart! Except there is no need to apoligise for moaning!
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Old Nov 13th, 2009, 16:51 PM   #4
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Never apologise for moaning you are more than entitled to sending you strength to get through today xxx
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Old Nov 13th, 2009, 18:25 PM   #5
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Old Nov 13th, 2009, 21:04 PM   #6
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I'm so sorry your having a tough day the time has gone so fast yet it feels like yesterday I was reading your devestating post Sending you lots of thinking of you xxx
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Old Nov 14th, 2009, 00:16 AM   #7
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I wish I could say something to make things better but I know there are no words.
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Old Nov 26th, 2009, 05:06 AM   #8
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natasja 32, I am am sorry for your loss. Friday November 13th, 2009 will always be a day of unhappiness for me also, because I lost my precious Kennedy at 21 weeks pregnant on this day. I know that Bodhi is close in your heart, and I know that he will always be there, just as my Kennedy is close in mine. You are not alone, and my prayers are with you. May your Precious Bodhi Rest In Peace.
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