Pregnancy After Loss Support Thread

Hello to all mummies to be and our little angels.

Many of us are pregnant again and feel we dont really belong anywhere. I feel having a thread here will be somewhere to give each other support as we all feel its not appropriate in the trimesters we are in as we are not wanting to worry the other mummy to be's.

There are things we may say/feel that other people wont really understand, so I feel we will all really benefit from knowing there is a place to give and receive support. I hope no one minds, the title says what the thread is so I'm sure it would be ok?

Lots of love to all the mummies and floaty kisses to all of our Angels

xxx

Our Dates

December

8th Bunnipowder - Mummy to Callum - TEAM PINK

February

12th Hayley - Mummy to Alex - TEAM PINK

18th MiissDior - Mummy to Lakeisha - section at 38 Weeks - TEAM BLUE

May

7th - Lexi mummy - Induction at 38 Weeks

June

9th Natasja32 - Mummy to Bodhi

17th jess_smurf - Mummy to Kristian

July

14th - Meldmac - Mummy to Devin

22nd - Hayley (Glitz) - Mummy to Lily

Appointments

November

Natasja32 - 5th - 9 Week Scan - CONGRATS, ALL PERFECT
Meldmac - 9th - 1st Obygn Appointment
jess_smurf - 12th - Midwife
Hayley - 18th - Midwife
Hayley - 19th - 28 Week Growth Scan
MiissDior - 21st - Private 4d scan
Hayley - 23rd - Private 4d Scan
Hayley - 25th - Consultant Appointment
Bunnipowder - 26th - INDUCTION - Wishing you all the best
MiissDior - 26th - Consultant Appointment
MiissDior - Date to be confirmed - 28 Week Growth Scan

December

jess_smurf - 7th - 12 Week Scan
Lexi mummy - 22nd - 20 Week Scan

January

Lexi mummy - 21st - Doppler and Growth Scan

What a wonderful Idea sweetie thanks so much for thinking of it. I know I looked in the 1st tri this morning but couldn't bring myself to look at any of the posts really as I just feel a bit strange. I know at some point I may but not right now.

Good idea Hayley

yep its a great idea, i think you all could do with somewhere you can be completely open about how your feeling in your new pregnancies xxx

Originally Posted by meldmac

What a wonderful Idea sweetie thanks so much for thinking of it. I know I looked in the 1st tri this morning but couldn't bring myself to look at any of the posts really as I just feel a bit strange. I know at some point I may but not right now.

What was it that made you feel you couldnt look in 1st tri? Is it cause you feel quilty for being there? Or is it cause you dont want to believe your pregnant incase anything happens to baby?

Everyday I feel guilty that I am pregnant again and what if Alex isnt happy we're pregnant again and then I feel guilty cause maybe I'm not giving our little girl the excitement and love she deserves like she would get if Alex hadnt of died.

Its so hard staying positive, but Devin will want his mummy and daddy to be happy, I'm sure this baby is sent from him xxx

Originally Posted by Bunnipowder

Good idea Hayley

Thank you not much longer left for you now, how are you feeling? xxx

What was it that made you feel you couldnt look in 1st tri? Is it cause you feel quilty for being there? Or is it cause you dont want to believe your pregnant incase anything happens to baby?

I think it's because I'm so scared of something happening to the baby. I'm scared to let myself get excited in case something happens. I don't know how I'd handle another loss. I think it would tear me apart.

I think this threads a great idea hayley, i know when i was pregnant with connor i would have liked to have somewere like this because i didnt want to worry people in the tri sections

Originally Posted by hayley x

Thank you not much longer left for you now, how are you feeling? xxx

I just want to go to sleep and wake up in 3 weeks time ready for the day of induction!The countdown is making me even more nervous and worried than Iv been throughout the pregnancy. But I have to face it and I am excited but the bigger part of me is just thinking of the negative's, but I suppose it's only normal. Won't fully relax and be happy until the birth and the few days after are done with and Iv brang her home!! Although she still has no name
How have you been feeling? Are you still liking the name Daisy?x

I think this is a great idea. I would feel more comfortable talking and reading posts from all you girls knowing anything we say won't cause offence or upset others.