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Old Jul 28th, 2009, 15:42 PM   #21
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Have sent you a message hun xx

But yep alot of those things are the same with Ethan, and like you said ADHD didnt seem to fit right, where as AS really does. Lets hope we get our boys diagnosed soon hun.. Ethan is such hard work sometimes but he is so worth it


 
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Old Jul 28th, 2009, 15:43 PM   #22
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Have sent you a message hun xx

But yep alot of those things are the same with Ethan, and like you said ADHD didnt seem to fit right, where as AS really does. Lets hope we get our boys diagnosed soon hun.. Ethan is such hard work sometimes but he is so worth it
i hear you with the hard work thing


 
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Old Jul 28th, 2009, 15:52 PM   #23
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When Ethan has a good day he is a fantastic kid, but when he has a "naughty" day my goodness he really is bad... He is getting worse with food and will only eat certain things which i have read is normal. He also has this thing where when excited he flaps his hands and opens his mouth wide - this is apparently a very common sign of AS! almost like a tick! I have my HV back out in 4 weeks and we are then being referred to the paediatrician to see if we can start the ball rolling towards a diagnosis.

I know its hard work hun, but it makes our boys unique and who they are..


 
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Old Jul 28th, 2009, 16:00 PM   #24
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When Ethan has a good day he is a fantastic kid, but when he has a "naughty" day my goodness he really is bad... He is getting worse with food and will only eat certain things which i have read is normal. He also has this thing where when excited he flaps his hands and opens his mouth wide - this is apparently a very common sign of AS! almost like a tick! I have my HV back out in 4 weeks and we are then being referred to the paediatrician to see if we can start the ball rolling towards a diagnosis.

I know its hard work hun, but it makes our boys unique and who they are..
i agree hun they are very unique, liams the same when hes excited he runs around making this horrible noise and whatever you do you cant stop it
also he rolls his head when he runs?? which is weird as he usually runs into a door or something
as for the 'naughty' my son is known as the naughtiest kid in school, he has a terrible reputation. But what people dont realise is that he cant communicate like everyone else hes just different.
i swear the mums at school think im a terrible mother
i know he has days when hes so out of control that i break down and cry, its so exhausting and most of the time you feel like you are talking to yourself because of that 'vacant look'. but his good days make him more than worth it xxx


 
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Old Jul 28th, 2009, 16:08 PM   #25
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well hun any support or advice you need i am here for you,

I wish people would think before classing kids as just "naughty" Ethan doesnt mean it but he is the way he is, his new thing is gritting his teeth and pushing his head into you when he gets frustrated its not nice but it seems he cant show frustration in "normal" ways.

I have been told its a long process getting AS diagnosed but its what we as mums have to do isnt it! Luckily my HV is great and seems to be 100% behind us on the AS. xx


 
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Old Jul 28th, 2009, 16:11 PM   #26
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here's to the long haul cheers lol


 
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Old Jul 28th, 2009, 16:14 PM   #27
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Cheers hun think we might need the odd glass here or there


 
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Old Jul 30th, 2009, 13:08 PM   #28
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Hi

I just thought I would add to this from a teacher's perspective. I have taught quite a few children with AS and in my opinion as long as the teacher/ta knows your child's individual 'traits' and the signals to look for, he will have no problems in mainstream school. It is only when AS behaviour is misunderstood for bad behaviour that problems arise. In my experience this generally through ignorance, even though I don't like to criticise my fellow teachers...

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Old Jul 30th, 2009, 13:55 PM   #29
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I didn't know Asperger's was diagnosed so young? Was there a language delay? If so, then Asperger's would be immediately dismissed. My daughter has PDD-NOS (ASD). You are right...your child will always be your child...no matter what the label.


 
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Old Jul 31st, 2009, 17:03 PM   #30
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JASMAK my son does have a language delay, although his speech is improving all the time he is still "behind" other children his age. Hopefully whatever it is he has can be diagnosed, only so he gets the right help with his education etc I love his little traits and wouldnt have him any other way as he is generally such a happy & gorgeous little fella

Seeing as i started this thread about him i thought i would share a pic of him..

So ladies here is my little man Ethan

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