I don't want to share!!!!!

Moulder86 · Jan 6th, 2009, 18:55 PM

I've just realise if Max's dad actually starts sorting things out I'm going to have to share my lil man with him and his new so called fiancee (sp)!!!

I don't want to share!!

I know it sounds childish and I never wanted to intentionally keep Rich away from him (totally the opposite in fact) but he hasn't had much involvement at all in the past 5 months. I'm the one who's done everything for him, I'm the one bringing him up n now I might have to share him with a loser father and a complete B*&^%!!

I have all these horrible worries about how they might decide I'm a horrible mother and try to take him away or try 2 turn him against me or something.

sorry just needed 2 say something to someone xx

Sarah88 · Jan 6th, 2009, 19:05 PM

You are a wonderful mum and noone will ever take ur gorgeous lil man away!

Moulder86 · Jan 6th, 2009, 19:11 PM

Thanks Sarah, just read your thread about Savannah getting her ears pierced I hope it goes ok! Thanks again xx

Sarah88 · Jan 6th, 2009, 19:26 PM

Thanks hun. I hope it goes ok too, i'm so nervous!!

Lucy&Pard · Jan 7th, 2009, 07:19 AM

Mummys are always number one! But the only thing you can do is be civil and mature about it!!!

starbucks101 · Jan 9th, 2009, 13:07 PM

Your not a bad Mum, and you'll always be number one!

Is Rich sorting things out or are you just thinking of "he might do it" Every other weekend parents & their partners are great fun & easy to malnipulate for kids but arent actually seen as "parents" by them in the end. Me & my "Dad" are a prime example.

Moulder86 · Jan 9th, 2009, 13:47 PM

He keeps saying he wants to see him and admittedly (sp) he always lets me down but I'm just worried if he does actually get his act together with his now fiancee that he is actually going to stand to his word.

I'm more worried about the what if rather than the it's happening (if that makes sense). I'm just being silly I know but I can't help to look at things from a negative point of view (one of my many flaws).

But thank you

xx

princess_bump · Jan 9th, 2009, 15:45 PM

babes, ive just seen this, stace honey, no one is taking that beautiful boy, let alone rich!!! he couldn't look after a bloody self-cleaning suck-y fish!!! anyone would look and see how he constantly lets max down and what a wonderfully amazing job your doing, u no i couldnt do it, hes not going anywhere, and max doesn't have to have anything to do with 'IT'

x x x

Moulder86 · Jan 9th, 2009, 16:46 PM

But Car what if he does actually get his act together, they get married and want to have Max at weekends and stuff. I don't think I could cope letting go, it's not as if I'm doing a great job but of course you could do it!! Anyway I know I'm just worrying about nothing but I can't help have the thoughts run through my head.

But thank you huni
xxx

princess_bump · Jan 9th, 2009, 16:53 PM

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Originally Posted by Moulder86

But Car what if he does actually get his act together, they get married and want to have Max at weekends and stuff. I don't think I could cope letting go, it's not as if I'm doing a great job but of course you could do it!! Anyway I know I'm just worrying about nothing but I can't help have the thoughts run through my head.

But thank you huni
xxx

of course you can't help thinking it and worrying, it was always my mums biggest fear you no sweetie

but you are COPING WONDERFULLY!!! and doing a bloody good job at it!! your building a life for you and max filled with love warmth and support, he couldn't offer any of it darling

x x x

Jan 6th, 2009, 18:55 PM	#1
Moulder86 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: Chelmsford, Essex Posts: 591	I don't want to share!!!!! I've just realise if Max's dad actually starts sorting things out I'm going to have to share my lil man with him and his new so called fiancee (sp)!!! I don't want to share!! I know it sounds childish and I never wanted to intentionally keep Rich away from him (totally the opposite in fact) but he hasn't had much involvement at all in the past 5 months. I'm the one who's done everything for him, I'm the one bringing him up n now I might have to share him with a loser father and a complete B*&^%!! I have all these horrible worries about how they might decide I'm a horrible mother and try to take him away or try 2 turn him against me or something. sorry just needed 2 say something to someone xx

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Sarah88 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Queensland, Australia Posts: 3,573	You are a wonderful mum and noone will ever take ur gorgeous lil man away!

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Jan 6th, 2009, 19:11 PM	#3
Moulder86 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: Chelmsford, Essex Posts: 591	Thanks Sarah, just read your thread about Savannah getting her ears pierced I hope it goes ok! Thanks again xx

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Sarah88 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Queensland, Australia Posts: 3,573	Thanks hun. I hope it goes ok too, i'm so nervous!!

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Lucy&Pard Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: Bath Posts: 777	Mummys are always number one! But the only thing you can do is be civil and mature about it!!!

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starbucks101 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: Norfolk Posts: 1,033	Your not a bad Mum, and you'll always be number one! Is Rich sorting things out or are you just thinking of "he might do it" Every other weekend parents & their partners are great fun & easy to malnipulate for kids but arent actually seen as "parents" by them in the end. Me & my "Dad" are a prime example.

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Moulder86 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: Chelmsford, Essex Posts: 591	He keeps saying he wants to see him and admittedly (sp) he always lets me down but I'm just worried if he does actually get his act together with his now fiancee that he is actually going to stand to his word. I'm more worried about the what if rather than the it's happening (if that makes sense). I'm just being silly I know but I can't help to look at things from a negative point of view (one of my many flaws). But thank you xx

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Jan 9th, 2009, 15:45 PM	#8
princess_bump Mum (Mom) BnB Spammer Elite Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: England Posts: 31,453	babes, ive just seen this, stace honey, no one is taking that beautiful boy, let alone rich!!! he couldn't look after a bloody self-cleaning suck-y fish!!! anyone would look and see how he constantly lets max down and what a wonderfully amazing job your doing, u no i couldnt do it, hes not going anywhere, and max doesn't have to have anything to do with 'IT' x x x

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Jan 9th, 2009, 16:46 PM	#9
Moulder86 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: Chelmsford, Essex Posts: 591	But Car what if he does actually get his act together, they get married and want to have Max at weekends and stuff. I don't think I could cope letting go, it's not as if I'm doing a great job but of course you could do it!! Anyway I know I'm just worrying about nothing but I can't help have the thoughts run through my head. But thank you huni xxx

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