Jan 26th, 2012, 07:48 AM
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| Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member  Join Date: Apr 2011 Location: South West London Posts: 1,179 | single again :( so when Kai was two months old i met this guy , he was 4 years older than me (22) and made me feel so special. Told me he was gonna look after me and Kai. We progressed onto a relationship and he was amazing, made me feel like i was the only girl in the world. Then overnight, literally, he changed. Its hard to say what changed but he didnt speak anymore, well not first anyway. When he did it was always a two work response at most. I remember one time he actually called me and it was only to get to me to do something for him. Im now in £300 debt because of favours i done for him and my lifes a mess all over again. Im just sitting here in tears because my life shouldnt be like this (especially not at 18). I feel so used, so broken, so emotionally numb. I told him about being sexually abused as a child, about being in a violent relationship, i told him everything and he done this to me. I just need some hugs really girls  |
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Jan 26th, 2012, 08:08 AM
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| Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2012 Posts: 176 | grrrr men eh! Majority of them are absolute tosspots & the rest, well they're either gay or already in a relationship  you're in the right section for support hun, sorry you feel so down about it all xx |
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Jan 26th, 2012, 08:09 AM
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| Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2012 Location: Manchester Posts: 281 |  I'm sorry it turned out like that.Things will get better, just consentrate on you and kai for now |
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Jan 26th, 2012, 08:30 AM
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| Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2011 Location: South West London Posts: 1,179 | thanks for the hugs girls i just feel so shitty lol i gave myself a little peptalk and im feeling a bit more upbeat than i was before the only thing thats really getting to me was that before him i had only slept with Kai's dad and now ive slept with him and i feel to cheap and worthless. To make myself feel better i did tell myself "well atleast your no longer sexually frustrated and he was better in bed than baby's dad" *sigh* |
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Jan 26th, 2012, 08:43 AM
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| Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2012 Location: Manchester Posts: 281 | I like your positive thinking! You shouldn't feel cheap or worthless, because your not. Only sleeping with two lads at your age is good! Some girls have slept with about 5+ people by then (: |
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Jan 26th, 2012, 08:45 AM
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| Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2011 Location: South West London Posts: 1,179 | |
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Jan 26th, 2012, 08:54 AM
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| Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2012 Location: Manchester Posts: 281 | Ah I understand there's nothing wrong with you, it's just these pathetic men I think he just took advantage of you, being a young newly single mum with a practically newborn baby. That's not your fault though |
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Jan 27th, 2012, 02:30 AM
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| Pregnant (Expecting) Chat Happy BnB Member  Join Date: Sep 2011 Location: Nr Bath, Somerset Posts: 1,135 | Men are a waste of space in my opinion. Every relationship I have had, bar my first, since I was 18 has been full of emotionally bullying. I remember one night one of my exs told me it was my duty to have sex with him even if I wasn't in the mood, needless to say a week later I broke up with him. When I was suffering major depression another ex used it to play mind games and now FOB [last ex!] tried to bully me into going back out with him for an easier life. I think it is important to remember no matter how much these times hurt, they make us stronger in the long run, a little wiser and one step closer to finding our prince. Not all men are stupid... in all honesty I know only 1 guy who isn't... but it is still 1 and not 0... so law of averages means there must be more!! Live in hope!! |
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Jan 27th, 2012, 15:04 PM
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| Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2012 Location: Michigan, USA Posts: 217 | Quote:
Stay strong, I know you feel like shit right now but only time can really heal your heart. | |
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Jan 27th, 2012, 17:11 PM
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| Pregnant (Expecting) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2011 Location: Nr Bath, Somerset Posts: 1,135 | Quote:
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