My ex split with me in July and it was really very-very hard for me, as i couldn't imagine my life without him at that moment. But ater one month time he deceided to come back - i was more than happy as still loved him. He was caring, supportive and nice even more than before. He was completely different - i felt in love even more. Unfortunately (or may be not) he couldn't be with me during baby's birth as we were in different countries, but was going to come soon. But suddenly (!!!) something changed in his mind and he said that he doesn't love me anymore, doesn't want to be with me and doesn't want to know about my baby (and his as well) anything.
And you know ladies i feel so relaxed now!!! If before baby's birth i could cry for ages cause of his decision, now i really don't care. It's his loss at first place, not mine. As i always will have my baby boy with me, whom i love more than my life and who will have the same feelings towards me. I saw at him now, he's smiling and my heart melts. And all this difficulties which i probably will have worth this smile. And i know that i will cope with everything as i should for the sake of my boy!
Life goes on and it's BEATIFUL!!!

Woohoo!well done for the PMA, you go girl!

And if ever you get down about it jsut check this thread out

this post made me smile, it was so nice to read you have everything you need already you don't need him xx

Good on you hunni. x x x

Good for you! You have realized something that takes a lot of moms years to realize. Its him that loses out, in fact when I look at my situation I feel sorry for my ex. his life is going to be so empty unlike mine.