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Jul 18th, 2008, 23:15 PM
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#1 | | Amy - Lola's mama BabyandBump Mini-Mod
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I'm Currently Feeling: | So...ummm.....should I?
Umm,a date?
Basicly,my friend worked had this summer job last year at some advertising company.
Her boss was this guy she kinda became friends with(he's not much older,he's 25)
Anyway,she introduced us way back in October and he sort of like me,I didn't pay much attention...but we did became friends 'a bit'...meet up for coffee here and there.
Anyway,he asked me out somewhere around the time I became pregnant and I rejected him(I was still dealing with it all and didn't give him the reason).
We met accidentally(damn Willamstown,so freaking small!) when I was about 16 weeks and I told him about it and we had a REALLY nice talk about everything including the baby and my pregnancy.It was a great talk.
A week ago he texted me and we met for coffee(like I would reject a coffee opportunity,I'd go for one with Charles Manson ) once again and again asked me out! I was firstly shocked....but then once again said no.
It just isn't on my priority list to date.I am not interested,I just want it to be me and my little girl,focusing on her and our life.
Now he just called.On my house phone! I have no idea where he got the number!
But now I see that he has actually put such an effort into this,should I?
I'm confused? What do you girls feel about dating someone at WEEK 29 of your pregnancy?
Weird as hell to me....  |
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Jul 18th, 2008, 23:17 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | Lol i'm regualry dating someone at the moment!! It's great fun & I find it's alot less pressurized than when i'm a non pregnant girlie lol!!
If you like him then go for it!! Ur not committing your self to anything!!
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Jul 18th, 2008, 23:18 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | Go for it hun...you deserve it! x |
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Jul 18th, 2008, 23:21 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | Gooooo fooorrr itttttt. NOW! haha I'd kill for a date right now
But seriously though, it can be laid back, he knows you arent looking for commitment. Take it slow and see how it goes. There is nothing wrong with having male influence (particularly if this is good looking male influence) in your life
ALSO dating can lead to sex with the right person. I'd go for it. But that might just be my crazy insane pornstar hormone induced sex drive talking  on this situation |
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Jul 18th, 2008, 23:31 PM
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#5 | | Amy - Lola's mama BabyandBump Mini-Mod
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The positive feedback!
My hand is now REALLY itching for the phone...
It's so weird! I will look like a whale no matter what I wear.
But Rae,  you are seriously putting ideas in my head with this sex talk.I can't even remember what is sex! |
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Jul 18th, 2008, 23:35 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | Quote:
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.I can't even remember what is sex! | Neither can my OH!!  Pick up the god damn phone girl!!!  |
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Jul 18th, 2008, 23:42 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | Quote:
Originally Posted by ~KACI~ Quote:
Originally Posted by nikky0907
.I can't even remember what is sex! | Neither can my OH!!  Pick up the god damn phone girl!!!  |
Oh well....if you insist.....*runs to the phone!* |
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Jul 18th, 2008, 23:44 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | Good luck hun, i'l check on this thread 2moz its 11pm here goin to bed in min got to be up for 4am...next sale starts 2moz!!  |
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Jul 18th, 2008, 23:44 PM
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But Rae,  you are seriously putting ideas in my head with this sex talk.I can't even remember what is sex! | hah I can then! Its on my mind 24 hours of the day, 7 days out of the week. Just because I always want what I can't have  lol
*books plane tickets to NY* |
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Jul 18th, 2008, 23:53 PM
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#10 | | Amy - Lola's mama BabyandBump Mini-Mod
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You're a complicated lady!
Lets just hope the poor fellow in NY knows what he is getting himself into *cough* horny animal *cough* |
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