"Well, lets hope you find a dad for your baby!" RANT

mBLACK · Jul 14th, 2008, 21:36 PM

Grrr some people are so inconsiderate it's unbelieveable. I'm getting fed up with people always asking, "you still with the dad"? And today I got a new one - "Well, lets hope you can find a dad for that baby before it's born!"
What, like I can't do this alone? God some people just piss me off, and I hate the fact that they assume the dad impregnated me and left me, I assume it's just because I'm a young mother(not implying that men do not do that to older women, just that it happens ALOT to young women - teens).
I mean is it that hard to believe I left HIM and am OK to do this alone!?

*Just so there is no confusion, I am not currently WITH the baby's father but he is going to be there sometimes, like a day every second weekend or something. I still view it as parenting alone though!*

leeanne · Jul 14th, 2008, 22:03 PM

Maybe you can put an ad out for a new daddy before your little one is born.

How stupid of a comment is that!?

brownhairedmom · Jul 14th, 2008, 22:33 PM

I think we should make a single mom's club with matching t-shirts that say "Yes, I'm a single mom. F**K off!"

Sweetie · Jul 14th, 2008, 22:53 PM

What a comment! Someone could use a slap

mBLACK · Jul 14th, 2008, 23:15 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by rae05

I think we should make a single mom's club with matching t-shirts that say "Yes, I'm a single mom. F**K off!"

It certainly would help! I can't count the number of times I get asked 'you still with the father?', and OH MY GOD the looks I get after I tell them no are enough to damn near break me!

nikky0907 · Jul 15th, 2008, 03:53 AM

People are stupid!

I want that T-shirt!

Do you remember a woman that cam to me and told me to out my baby up for adoption because a child needs to parents?!

Torialou · Jul 15th, 2008, 08:07 AM

I'd love that T shirt!

xXx Vamp xXx · Jul 15th, 2008, 12:12 PM

I want that t-shirt too now!

And, silly people hun, try and ignore them, you know and we know you'll be an amazing mommy! xXx

Irishmum · Jul 15th, 2008, 15:42 PM

FFS!!! Some people are just so ignorant!! Pay them no mind! Cos whoever it was doesn't have one of their own!

This is the 21st century!! And we are the epitomy of independance!!!

I want that t-shirt too!! Haha!

Younglutonmum · Jul 15th, 2008, 15:48 PM

That T-shirt sounds ace!!!

I wonder if there's anything like it on the net?? I thinks i'm gonna have to goggle it lol!!

Bug

to you mBlack!! Some people are just so damn rude!!

xxxxx

Jul 14th, 2008, 21:36 PM	#1
mBLACK Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: Manitoba Posts: 2,350	"Well, lets hope you find a dad for your baby!" RANT Grrr some people are so inconsiderate it's unbelieveable. I'm getting fed up with people always asking, "you still with the dad"? And today I got a new one - "Well, lets hope you can find a dad for that baby before it's born!" What, like I can't do this alone? God some people just piss me off, and I hate the fact that they assume the dad impregnated me and left me, I assume it's just because I'm a young mother(not implying that men do not do that to older women, just that it happens ALOT to young women - teens). I mean is it that hard to believe I left HIM and am OK to do this alone!? Just so there is no confusion, I am not currently WITH the baby's father but he is going to be there sometimes, like a day every second weekend or something. I still view it as parenting alone though!

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Jul 14th, 2008, 22:03 PM	#2
leeanne Mum (Mom) BnB Spammer Elite Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: BC, Canada Posts: 26,691	Maybe you can put an ad out for a new daddy before your little one is born. How stupid of a comment is that!?

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Jul 14th, 2008, 22:33 PM	#3
brownhairedmom Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Dec 2007 Posts: 6,444	I think we should make a single mom's club with matching t-shirts that say "Yes, I'm a single mom. F**K off!"

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Jul 14th, 2008, 22:53 PM	#4
Sweetie Pregnant (Expecting) BnB Addict Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: Edmonton, AB Posts: 4,674	What a comment! Someone could use a slap

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Jul 15th, 2008, 03:53 AM	#6
nikky0907 Mum (Mom) Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: New England, USA Posts: 11,326	People are stupid! I want that T-shirt! Do you remember a woman that cam to me and told me to out my baby up for adoption because a child needs to parents?!

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Jul 15th, 2008, 08:07 AM	#7
Torialou Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: Lancs, UK Posts: 232	I'd love that T shirt!

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Jul 15th, 2008, 12:12 PM	#8
xXx Vamp xXx Pregnant (Expecting) Join Date: Apr 2008 Posts: 1,961	I want that t-shirt too now! And, silly people hun, try and ignore them, you know and we know you'll be an amazing mommy! xXx

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Jul 15th, 2008, 15:42 PM	#9
Irishmum Other Active BnB Member Join Date: Jul 2008 Posts: 456	FFS!!! Some people are just so ignorant!! Pay them no mind! Cos whoever it was doesn't have one of their own! This is the 21st century!! And we are the epitomy of independance!!! I want that t-shirt too!! Haha!

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Jul 15th, 2008, 15:48 PM	#10
Younglutonmum Pregnant (Expecting) BnB Addict Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Luton Posts: 3,157	That T-shirt sounds ace!!! I wonder if there's anything like it on the net?? I thinks i'm gonna have to goggle it lol!! Bug to you mBlack!! Some people are just so damn rude!! xxxxx

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