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Old Jul 15th, 2008, 02:36 AM   #1
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"Well, lets hope you find a dad for your baby!" *RANT*


Grrr some people are so inconsiderate it's unbelieveable. I'm getting fed up with people always asking, "you still with the dad"? And today I got a new one - "Well, lets hope you can find a dad for that baby before it's born!"
What, like I can't do this alone? God some people just piss me off, and I hate the fact that they assume the dad impregnated me and left me, I assume it's just because I'm a young mother(not implying that men do not do that to older women, just that it happens ALOT to young women - teens).
I mean is it that hard to believe I left HIM and am OK to do this alone!?

*Just so there is no confusion, I am not currently WITH the baby's father but he is going to be there sometimes, like a day every second weekend or something. I still view it as parenting alone though!*
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Old Jul 15th, 2008, 03:03 AM   #2
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Maybe you can put an ad out for a new daddy before your little one is born.

How stupid of a comment is that!?
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Old Jul 15th, 2008, 03:33 AM   #3
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I think we should make a single mom's club with matching t-shirts that say "Yes, I'm a single mom. F**K off!"
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Old Jul 15th, 2008, 03:53 AM   #4
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What a comment! Someone could use a slap
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Old Jul 15th, 2008, 04:15 AM   #5
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I think we should make a single mom's club with matching t-shirts that say "Yes, I'm a single mom. F**K off!"
It certainly would help! I can't count the number of times I get asked 'you still with the father?', and OH MY GOD the looks I get after I tell them no are enough to damn near break me!
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Old Jul 15th, 2008, 08:53 AM   #6
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People are stupid!

I want that T-shirt!

Do you remember a woman that cam to me and told me to out my baby up for adoption because a child needs to parents?!
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Old Jul 15th, 2008, 13:07 PM   #7
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I'd love that T shirt!
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Old Jul 15th, 2008, 17:12 PM   #8
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I want that t-shirt too now!

And, silly people hun, try and ignore them, you know and we know you'll be an amazing mommy! xXx
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FFS!!! Some people are just so ignorant!! Pay them no mind! Cos whoever it was doesn't have one of their own!

This is the 21st century!! And we are the epitomy of independance!!!

I want that t-shirt too!! Haha!
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Old Jul 15th, 2008, 20:48 PM   #10
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That T-shirt sounds ace!!!

I wonder if there's anything like it on the net?? I thinks i'm gonna have to goggle it lol!!

Bug to you mBlack!! Some people are just so damn rude!!

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