Younglutonmum

Thort id share with you the generosity of my babys sperm doner

He texted me to inform me that at the beginning of July he will happily give me £300 towards baby bits and then................nothing at all, zilch not a penny!!

He just simply cannot even afford to give me a tenner a week once LO is here as he has other expenses such as driving lessons & going out with his friends!

He also happily reminded me that he will be away in Spain when im due

Aren't I a lucky mummy to be

rae05

Go through the courts. I don't know about there, but here...if he has a job, he will not SEE the money. They will garnish his wages. That is what I'm doing to Adam

Sneaky frigger, I am

nikky0907

Drag his ass into court!

This infuriates me.I mean why the hell do those idiots think that they hold the cards,that they can just decide things like that on their own?!

IT ISN'T HIS DECISION TO MAKE!

It's not like he spilled something on the carpet,he made a child and with that he made himself financially tied for life! Emotions-thats his choice but this isn't his,this is a choice that either you agree with or his paycheck will go straight to your pocket...

Just like he didn't care about you when he made this ''decision'' you shouldn't care wether he has to donate blood to buy himself food after the rest of his money goes for child support...

babezone

the thing is.....although taking him to court is a good idea.....in order for his name to be on the birth cetificate he has to be there so if he wants to be an arse he can refuse to and say his not the dad...then its going to take alot longer as he will be required to take a dna test etc jus depends how much of an ass-hole he wants to be...personally i think its selfish puttin going out etc before his unborn baby...grr men lol! xx xx good luck x x

leeanne

Try not to spend it all in one place, hon!

$300? WTF is that? So this is how much it costs to bring up a child for 18 years? Ridiculous!

anita665

It makes me really angry to hear about guys who don't do their part. On one hand I think you should take him to court for the money but on the other you've got to wonder if it's really worth the hassle. Especially with the possible hurtful things that can be said and done, like claiming not to be the father.

Moulder86

Well my ex keeps saying he told me at the start to get rid of it and as it was my decision to keep it then basically 'he doesn't have to do anything'. That isn't exactly what he said but that's what he means. x

~ Vicky ~

I have something similar going on my end.

CSA though, love. Massive what a moron.

Younglutonmum

Lol I just had to laugh when I recieved the text!!!

Im not even angry with him. Am going to take the £300 with a big smile plastered on my face & then once Anais is here i'll hit him with the CSA!!

He can deny she's his all he wants because im happy to sit back & go through DNA tests. They'll just make him pay back everything he owes us

Hahaha

rae05

Yuppp they will too. There was a guy here who wouldn't pay his child support, he even quit his job so he wouldn't have to pay...eventually he had to get another job and with all the back payments and all, he ended up owing 20,000 dollars! Jackass, got what he deserved!