It really makes me sad that there are so many idiot males out there.

Well things took s turn forthe worse and I guess I will be on thisboard more often. I told my mom and sister(actually the hospital sen a paper tomyhouse sayingi was pregnant and they found out werent mad but wanted me to talk to them so i did and they are supporting me and the fob my now ex as of lastnight decided to bring upold past and continue saying stuff that i was lying tohim when he is the one who was cheating in the first place and how he will be there for the baby and thats it.
So let me introduce myself. Im 19 turning 20 sept. 30th Im going to be a junior in college as of next semester and am going for business marketing. the fob will be 23 in january. Im due march 21 2009. I love my baby already.im not prepared to do this bymyself but atleast i have my mom and sister withme. This is my first baby and im very scarred.

Hey, well, im Louise, 18, almost 19, due 27th october (can't wait!) DH and i have been split for just over a month now, we'd had problems because as soon as we told everyone about our pregnancy he sortof forgot about me, never invited me anywhere anymore, never came to see me never asked me to come see him, he was always out spending all his money on drugs and drink. i told him if it didnt stop well, that would be it! i don't want someone like that around my baby! So he stopped for a max of 3 days, and then took E's and Acid and lied to me about it, i wasn't impressed and broke it off, he came crying and i took him back only 2 days later he cheated on me and slept with another girl, who i used to be good friends with and knew we were together/pregnant so i blame her as much as him, but it made me feel so shit about myself that was it, and has been it since on that front, he has given up drugs and dosent drink anymore and is still going to be my birthpartner but i just dont trust him enough to carry on with the relationship. i love him but whats a relationhip without trust eh?

Sorrrrry, practically taken up half the thread with this haha!

I just have to say aswell, reading everyone elses stories, your all AMAZING ladies =)

Well,Hello girls,I'm in here with you now...well have been since Friday, but weren't sure what was happenin!? (dick!) Anyway. I have split up with the fiance + dad to my baby. Basically because I've been really depressed/moody in this pregnancy,and have been takin it out on him, (I couldn't control myself),so I've been constantly crying over it. We've argued nearly everyday,cause of it,and it's ''Made'' him depressed,so he said he wanted time alone to 'think' about things. Things meaning us. Well I aint one for bein pissed about, im 8months pregnant,and the last thing I want is to wait for my fuckin fiance make his mind up what he wants. So were finished. He doesnt trust me at all. He calls me names. (always has wen weve argued) but I give him shit too. I cant not argue back lol. So yea, I'm single, depressed, and ive got his fucking name tattooed on my hip!!!!! Arrrrrrgh men! Why do I pick arse's up!?! Honestly, I thought, right he's the one I want kids with, get engaged to, etc...... And look, Im gonna be a single mum - That in itself makes me shivver! I never ever wanted to be a single mum. But I WILL manage. I am determined. Alls I feel now though is, numb....upset.....confused....? What goes on from here? :S

Now,hun,you've got to make terms with yourself and the situation,It's not gonna be easy and you must be heartbroken..I'm so sorry...

Have you two discussed things about the baby?

donna i just wanted to send you huge

We haven't really got to speak yet Amy, as were still at eachothers throats. I'm gonna leave him alone, not contact him at all for a month, and I'll speak to him after that. Hopefully he'll be more grown up by then. Yep,Im heartbroken, but I've got my family,so Im tryna not think about it too much. If I do, Ill make myself ill. Thanks girls.x x

sorry to gate crash here, but just noticed on the main page that you had posted here donna, sorry to hear you two are having problems, ive just added you on msn again, as i have a new addy, so im here if you wanna talk xxx

Ok chick.x

Oh Donna I'm so sorrryy! I know how that feels to be at each others throats all the time and its not nice! You're going to be just fine. Just concentrate on your little girl and try to forget about him. Hard, I know. Just know that if you have days when you want to knock his head off...its normal