hmm my situation is complicated...after all of the stress of me being pregnant and keeping the baby, me and baby's dad went through a bad time and i broke up with him just over a month ago. what's complicated is that we still go out and we have sex (i know!) and are on the phone until 4 in the morning every night- it's like we're still together! i really don't know how things are going to go. in 6 months we could be completly over eachother or back together...

I'm Gem, 24 on 3rd september .. and Tom's due 29th september.. still keep in contact with bumps dad etc and i'm kinda seeing an ex but still single as far as it goes

Hi all, I'm Claire, 27 and expecting my 1st baby in October. Fell pregnant whilst taking the pill, but after the initial shock am now very happy as had polycystic ovaries and was warned I could have problems conceiving.
Was seeing bubs Dad for approx 2 years, and he was estranged from his ex, but now he's back there, as she won't give up the house, and there's all sorts of madness going on. I think he's just weak and doesn't really know what he wants. His family don't know about the bubs, and I don't really want them to, as they're vile, nasty people.
So anyway, have tried explaining to him that if he wants to be a part of his child's life then he's gotta sort his shit out, but not gonna hold my breath!! He rings me every day, has bought the pram, and says that he will support me and the bubs, but if he doesn't then I'll cope, as I have great support from family and friends. At the end of the day, my little baby is the most important thing in my life now, and I haven't got the time or the energy to put up with his faffing/arsing/messing around.
Single motherhood here I come!!
xx

I am Samantha,16 nearly 17
Single parent to be,Daddy didnt want to be a daddy
because he was lying scum who already had a girlfriend!

im Yvanne im 21 with 2 kids. im technically not single as i have a partner, but its early days

i fell out of love with callums "dad" cos he just treated me liek shite! and chloes "dad" walked out on me wen i was 2 month preg. i respect darren in the sense hes brought chloe up as his own, but fook me its hard getting on with him these days!!!

Hi everybody! I'm Emz, 20 and im 32 weeks pregnant. Due Sept 11th (what a date! I know! Lol!)

One night in December I turned to my best friend for comfort in a trying situation and we all know how the rest of that night went. Well anyways a few weeks later I was a tad late and just wanted my period to hurry up and get here, so i used the tried and tested method of taking a test, cos this usually caused my period to come along within a day of seeing a negative! Well.... this time it didnt happen that way and when I took two more and it still didn't happen that way I figured maybe I should tell the father.

I did.... he denied the possibility it was his....even though he accepted it couldn't be anyone elses (Ha!) And eventually he came to the conclusion that I could go to hell and he doesnt want anything to do with the child!

Last time I spoke to him was at the 2 month mark, good riddance!

Hi Ems,
I also found out i was pregnant after split wi t'fatha.
And i live in Halifax.
Just come onto this site and signed up. Not right sure how to use it, so hope this is right.
Am due Nov. 2nd.
Your in your final month! How's it ?! Hope alls well.

Am just trying to figure this site out! Not very computer literate.

Am from Yorkshire too and dint know i was pregnant till after we split.

Your in your final month! How's it all going n' did you get back t'getha with pain in the arse, or decide not to bother?

Heya! Welcome to bnb!

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Your in your final month! How's it all going n' did you get back t'getha with pain in the arse, or decide not to bother?[/QUOTE]

Hey, a fellow yorkshire person..

Things are going ok at the moment.. am ready for it to be over now though. lol..

Decided not to bother getting back together. He still wants to, but I really can't be bothered with it all...

Hope all goes well with you, and there's loads of us to talk to if you need anything....



Em
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