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teal · Mar 19th, 2010, 13:35 PM

Just thought I'd update on my situation..

As you know I've not seen my ex since June. I did hear from him over Christmas time in a few emails but nothing since then.

I sent him an email in the middle of February asking, for what was really the last time, if he wanted to know when the baby was born. I did say in the email that if he didn't reply I would assume he didn't want to know. I didn't hear anything back from him.

Although I really didn't want to I did send an email when I got home after having my baby boy but the email came back as undelivered.

So - he's moved, changed his phone number and now deactivated his email account.

I guess that's it. I don't care that he broke up with me but I'm still between really upset and angry that he has walked away from his son.

On a positive note though I guess it means I can really just move on from it because I know that I've done everything that I can do.

sweetlullaby · Mar 19th, 2010, 13:54 PM

you've done what you could hun

expecting09 · Mar 19th, 2010, 13:54 PM

These guys don't know what there missing out on! It's his loss chick, now you can move on and forget about him for good

lou_w34 · Mar 19th, 2010, 14:01 PM

Like above really, you tried your best, and thats all you can do

Lets look at it this way, that first smile will be all for you

xxx

surprisebaby · Mar 19th, 2010, 14:22 PM

it's so similar to my situation. my fob just ignores me too which is so horrible and makes me feel so sad for the daughter that we made together, because he is denying her existance. are you going to go to the csa? I hate it that they think they can just disappear as if nothing has happened. Its disgusting. Hope you're ok. i struggle with the same issue. I don't know if there's any point telling my fob that my baby is born, because i think he has blocked my email address and he never answers my calls or texts.

anyway

xx

Aidedhoney · Mar 19th, 2010, 16:05 PM

As said above you have done all you can, xx

His loss

littlekitten8 · Mar 19th, 2010, 17:23 PM

Oh hunni what an idiot. Its his loss! He will miss out on all the amazing parts of parenthood! And you have us hehe xx

suzanne108 · Mar 21st, 2010, 21:11 PM

As all the others have said.....you tried your best.

Just get on and enjoy being a mummy

xxxx

teal · Mar 22nd, 2010, 03:53 AM

Thanks for all the replies. I appreciate you all loads

xx

Mar 19th, 2010, 13:35 PM	#1
teal Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Jun 2009 Posts: 11,384	All I can do Just thought I'd update on my situation.. As you know I've not seen my ex since June. I did hear from him over Christmas time in a few emails but nothing since then. I sent him an email in the middle of February asking, for what was really the last time, if he wanted to know when the baby was born. I did say in the email that if he didn't reply I would assume he didn't want to know. I didn't hear anything back from him. Although I really didn't want to I did send an email when I got home after having my baby boy but the email came back as undelivered. So - he's moved, changed his phone number and now deactivated his email account. I guess that's it. I don't care that he broke up with me but I'm still between really upset and angry that he has walked away from his son. On a positive note though I guess it means I can really just move on from it because I know that I've done everything that I can do.

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Mar 19th, 2010, 13:54 PM	#2
sweetlullaby Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: Uk Posts: 6,337	you've done what you could hun

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expecting09 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: May 2009 Location: Cornwall Posts: 1,047	These guys don't know what there missing out on! It's his loss chick, now you can move on and forget about him for good

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lou_w34 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2009 Posts: 1,987	Like above really, you tried your best, and thats all you can do Lets look at it this way, that first smile will be all for you xxx

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surprisebaby Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Aug 2009 Posts: 823	it's so similar to my situation. my fob just ignores me too which is so horrible and makes me feel so sad for the daughter that we made together, because he is denying her existance. are you going to go to the csa? I hate it that they think they can just disappear as if nothing has happened. Its disgusting. Hope you're ok. i struggle with the same issue. I don't know if there's any point telling my fob that my baby is born, because i think he has blocked my email address and he never answers my calls or texts. anyway xx

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Aidedhoney Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: Scotland Posts: 2,444	As said above you have done all you can, xx His loss

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littlekitten8 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Bristol Posts: 2,298	Oh hunni what an idiot. Its his loss! He will miss out on all the amazing parts of parenthood! And you have us hehe xx

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suzanne108 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: Manchester Posts: 6,844	As all the others have said.....you tried your best. Just get on and enjoy being a mummy xxxx

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Mar 22nd, 2010, 03:53 AM	#9
teal Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Jun 2009 Posts: 11,384	Thanks for all the replies. I appreciate you all loads xx

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